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Trans Dude keeps hitting on my boyfriend
4 months ago · 4 · Stress, +9
So basically school started pretty recently and my boyfriend (m17) and I (f16) go to the same school, but are in different classes.
He has this classmate, let’s call him Claus and they got closer pretty quickly.
Now I’m a very intuitive person. I didn’t like him from the start. This literally does not have to do anything with that he is trans, btw.
My bf told me he steals and I just don’t trust that, but that’s a whole nother story.
Basically after like 2-3 months Claus confessed to “falling in love” with my bf, despite knowing we were together.
Honestly, I laughed it off.
If you are that pathetic and think you could break up people that love each other and want to cause chaos, that’s on you.
Well….my bf made it clear A COUPLE OF TIMES that he does NOT want anything to do with him.
Case closed, right? Wrong!
This psycho now follows us on the way home from school and tries to be around my bf all. The. Time.
Now listen. I have a very short temper.
I don’t get insecure (and honestly in this scenario have nothing to be insecure about) but it just bugs me.
I just want to be left alone, bc this mf sometimes comes up to me, asking me random dumb ass stuff.
I tried to be polite and kept my answers short (yes,no,idk) but I’ve had just about enough of his bull.
Now what do I do?
He is some kind of obsessed weirdo, and I kinda don’t want to get involved bc it’s my bf business he has to sort out.
I honestly just don’t want anything to do with him.
Do you have any tips on what to do? He does not get the hint.
Thank you for your time to read my rant/asking for advice. Have a lovely day:))
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I think you should tell him straight forward. Be honest with him.Reply
I'd just tell him. Say you don't trust him.Reply
I think you should talk to your boyfriend how that 'Claus' is making you feel. I think he have to be a lot more frank and set a line between them. If he does not stop, then you talk to him. Its your relationship too that's been affected because of his actions, you be frank with him to back off. And if he doesn't stop there, he's really insane and obsess with him.Reply
As a trans dude, you both can kick his ass. He can handle it.
(naw, no ass kickin'... not yet.)
If verbally telling him off won't do,
maybe reporting it to someone who can handle the situation accordingly.
(if this isn't something you already tried)
Lastly, you also ignore to the best of your abilities.
Anytime he gets close or to your boyfriend, both of you, don't interact.
Just continue with whatever you guys were doing before. Much luck.Reply