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I just want to get this feeling off my chest and write it out.
Just recently a friend of mine told that she is considering about going serious with a guy she met through dating app, of course I am excited and happy for her! All of the friends are, and also I just recently attended 2 weddings, one of my friend and one is my relative. All these happy vibes and feelings makes me feel good and excited, wondering if i can experience that on my own too.
After a while, when i am alone, looking through social media, seeing many of my friends, colleagues, even influencers or celebrities getting married or started new relationships, and it got me feeling a kind of mixed feeling of happiness and sadness/loneliness. Especially I did met a guy and I thought he might be the guy, as we chatted so much and i really liked him but ended up he isn’t looking for a monogamous relationship, as I am, I did told him that I liked him and all, but we could not go further due to him living far away and also we are looking for different things.
It is kinda lonely when all you see is people getting into great relationships while you just wondering when will it happens to you. I know is fine being single, but I still wanted to have that small chance of having a partner to share something with, rely on, talk to, and felt loved in a more different way. Don’t get me wrong, i have great friends and family, but i never had a proper relationship before, so I don’t know how it feels and I really wanted that bit of taste, what’s it like, I understand that I can be single and happy too, I can, but I felt lonely once in a while and always thinking and wondering what it would feel like to be in a relationship, to be loved, to be spoiled.
I am also slowly trying to move on from that little heartbreak too, try not to think too hard and try to heal, give myself love and telling myself that I deserve love just maybe is not here yet. :)
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Replywell, in my opinion, I will say this is wrong if u want to be with someone just because everyone has someone in their life to share things with a guy or a person they love. You will also get someone if u are desperately waiting for the one. on the contrary, if u want to rely on someone then be careful with that because this might hurt you. the actions of your loved one won't hurt you but the expectations you'll have will hurt you. so, I think u need not rely on someone, neither u should you think he will be responsible for your happiness, nor do you think u will be responsible for his happiness. everything takes time so have patience. it's a very big deal to bring someone into your life. I'm sorry if I said anything wrong in your opinion.
ReplyBeing alone is an opportunity to take a close look at who and how you are. This will prepare you show what you stand for and will allow others to be drawn to you. Pick a path, a way of being in the world, and move fearlessly in that direction. Life will send you what you need to enrich this journey.
ReplyI completely get it, even with people in my house and life, i feel lonely but relationships cannot be rushed and trust me i was once desperate to meet someone as i am in my late twenties but god might have some other plans as every man that introduced seems uninterested and trust me my confidence level had been six feet below the ground since then.
But to keep myself distracted i read, now novels are an important part of my life, reading the characters falling in love makes me smile and content, although, i don't believe in fairytales but i still got fantasies and i feel one day i would be departed to parallel world where i would be happy.
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