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pls help me in this case....badly need help

2 months ago · 7 · Relationships, +4


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i have to get this thing out otherwise i'll waste more time on it....its been more than 6 years me crushing on him....i don't know why my mind continues to tell me that he likes me... the way i catch him looking at me and finding him around me every time.....just making me think that he likes me that is why i like him.....may be the reason that is not letting me to stop liking him is that at that time when i was not pretty at all or no one knows me a lot at that time i got to know that he like me....but i didn't did anything that time neither now.....now i am very very confused cuz now i also try to find him , look for him and he also catch me while looking at him.....and now i think that he like's me cuz he thinks i like him which is true....but this all time was i wrong that he liked me for so many years.... and i was tying to give this whole scenario a term call "love" , love at first sight...... i don't know what it is now any more

may be i don't want him to stop liking me and at the same time i want to move one just not to stop at one stage.....

truth is that my high school is about to be over in three months and i don't want to leave this thing incomplete.....i want a conclusion and i don't know how cuz whenever i think to go to that guy to whom i have rarely talked my whole school life and now if i go i think that he will weird out and think i am crazy that i liked him for more than 6 years and i am scared that what he will think and after this in whole school people will just talk about us which i don't want......

seriously i have only one chance either i go to him and ask about this all or i just lose this chance also and regret my whole life...

i want advise pls badly as i have very less time.....pls help

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  • amanda47 · 2 months ago

    Please do not go up to him & talk about this issue. Go your own way & stop looking at him.

    You mentioned high school & 6 yrs of knowing him. so your 17 or 18 yrs? Now 6 yrs means 12 or 13 yrs.

    Firstly, you do not need a boy at that age.

    Secondly, you will land in a big mess. Concentrate on your studies/college.

    Remember

    Blessings when you do right. Problems/Suffering when u do wrong.

    Just because others are in relationships doesn't mean u have to have one to fit in.

    Watch those who are in a relationship. Watch & listen around you. Really really watch & LISTEN.

    Even when a boy talks to you, really really listen. You will see those horns. You will come to know when they talk.

    DON'T DO ANYTHING WRONG.

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    • Novni Guest · 2 months ago

      first of all thank you so much for reading it all and giving the advice.....your age predictions are very much right and i really don't know that i need a boy or not in this age and i also don't know that they have those horns or not but one thing i know that if universe want that guy and me to be together then till this time i guess we would be together or who knows we get together in future but for now i am believing in time.....and looking forward to what next come in my life.....which mean that i am not saying him anything....only few days are left of my high school so, i just need to enjoy and get good grades so that i can get myself into a amazing college without any stress....

      thank you so much :)

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  • cry_baby · 2 months ago

    my advice for u is to talk to him!! get to know this guy- the better u know him, the better things might turn out to be. who knows? he could end up being the love of ur life. but u wont know unless u talk to him! strike a convo or invite him to go somewhere or hang out. tbh this guy is showing signs of possibly liking u right? in my eyes it does bc u said u catch him looking at u a lot. so take this as a good chance to talk to him. u wont know unless u do it! if ur almost out of time, do it now or forever hold ur peace! u'll be glad u did. best of luck! :D

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    • Novni Guest · 2 months ago

      really really thank you for reading it all and answering but i'll pass this time also cuz now i am thinking that if he had to be my love of life then till now he would be the one but i guess he's not so, i am moving on from him......who knows that guy and me meet again in future and start something new....but for now i'll just enjoy my rest of my high school with my friends

      thank you so much :)

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      • cry_baby · 2 months ago

        happy for u <333

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  • amanda47 · 2 months ago

    Pls dont't approach him. Go on yr way & concentrate on yr studies.

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  • HeatherHart · 2 months ago

    Hey,

    I think you gave yourself the best advise here and i quote "seriously i have only one chance either i go to him and ask about this all or i just lose this chance also and regret my whole life..."

    That's all you need. Your mind is blurry because you have two sides telling you the opposite. I suggest you go for it. Worst case scenario, he turns you down. And that's okay. Life goes on. You'll cry and you'll think about it a lot but you'll heal. You'll find another one day. Don't let your mind stop you. Time will help you. But you'll have the answers to all of your questions. Go for it. Make a move. It will either crush you or it will elevate you. But you'll have closure on it. <3

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