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I was there for my friend when she needed me to be. She felt bad so many times and I'd watch a movie with her, chat to her, we'd go to the cinema or I'd at least let her talk about how she felt and i had never had a time like that for the whole year we've known eachother. Now I let her know I'm going through a rough time at the moment and first she told me we'd watch something in the evening yesterday and then she fell asleep which happens, I wasn't annoyed. But today she just dismissed me saying that I felt bad and would like to watch the film we didn't see yesterday and she just changed the subject. I told her how I felt bad and a few people let me down today and I felt let down also by her avoiding spending time with me and she just said 'poor you :(' This isn't meeting to watch a film. Its watching something on 'teleparty' online. And she sent me a photo and said she was listening to music and colouring but then she said she was just scrolling through YouTube. So she could've made some time for me. In the past we have just watched an episode of something so it didn't have to be a whole movie.
I knew this would happen with her to be honest because she was so keen to hang out with me all the time when we first met so I knew she would be the same if she met new people, and that kind of thing dies down especially of youre viewing someone as perfect and amazing right away because we all have bad times or bad traits that arent apparent right away. She has new friends that she seems to be infatuated with now and that's fair enough but I just want someone to take a moment to hear how I've had a bad time recently and I thought she would listen to me because I've been there for her so many times in the past. Yesterday I was just waiting for her because I had a bad dsy and she said 'after 5' then 'after 7' then it was 9 and she finally said she was free. Then she messaged me at midnight to say she fell asleep. I wasn't even going to ask her again today because she clearly was avoiding it but I felt like I needed a distraction and nothing has happened to make this sudden switch in her apart from the fact she has new friends. And it was her idea to watch something a few days ago not mine, but we compared schedules and said yesterday was the first time we were both free. Someone else let me down today also, I went to uni to meet someone for this group project and we had arranged it and then I messaged her after the meeting time and she cancelled. Also I had a bad situation with a guy yesterday who was sending me inappropriate messages and that made me stressed so I was looking forward to watching something with my friend, like I said as a distraction and maybe to have a laugh.
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All of this would have caused you stress. I think that you should stop dealing with people and be alone for a while then try to make new friends too.
ReplyYeah, I think you might be right. Wondering what I've done wrong or why my friend has changed her mind about me is getting me down and when I see her in person I will probably ask her about it too see what she says but I've never been the type of person to chase somebody who clearly doesn't want to spend time with me.
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