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I feel like im never good enough and im slowly losing people i care about. Almost all of my friends are gone and my best friend i feel like is going to leave me too and it hurts. I know its not fair for me to want to keep them, they are their own people and have their own lives, but it still hurts. I feel like im just not good enough anymore and thats why everyone is leaving, which is selfish. I wanna talk to them about it but i dont want to make them feel like I do. I feel selfish, hate myself, then expect people to notice when i say nothing about it, feel alone, and then the cycle just starts all over agian. It just seems like im going to lose everyone. I hate feeling this way but i would never tell them. Especially since some are leaving so that they can have a better life. Who am i to soil those dreams and feelings? Because i dont say anything, i feel like no one cares, which also isnt fair to them. I ruin everything and im so tired. Id never let anyone know ive been crying because that just proves how desperate I am for validation and attention. I know that im not good enough at anything. Im not pretty enough, at best im average at everything i do, im almost never motivated to do things i like, and i think im just letting everybody down. Ill never get to follow my dreams or make a name for myself and no one will stick around with me.
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Well since I don't know your age or anything else about you I'm going to approach my answer from a general perspective.
In your post all I can see is low self confidence which may be the source of your problem. I had some issues with myself too and at that time I had a lot of problems with everyone, I lost my friends too and nothing was going well with me. But you shouldn't be disappointed or blame yourself. Life is full of new people that you can meet and may deserve more than your current ones, without meaning to insult them. You have a whole life to find new friends that will let you no doubt for yourself. But please don't you dare blame yourself for any of these problems. Each one of us is special and, well, we all have our flaws! So do you. But you shouldn't let them bring you down. Before working things out with others, first do it with yourself. You really need to get some confidence in order to see things more optimistically because in the end everything is fine. I know it hurts a lot losing some people you care about and enjoyed their company. However, there are some people that don't leave and don't forget about you and on the contrary they are trying to cheer you up in any way.
I don't know if this helped you even a little, I just hope so.
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