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I'm so unhappy in my marriage. And it's just been 7 months only. My flight response keeps kicking in. I don't enjoy my time with him. I don't enjoy anything with him. I'm happy when he is away. Talking to him and spending time with him is a struggle for me. He is a good guy. Before I knew him just like you would know anyone from your family's circle, only good things. And they all are true, he is a good guy. Very genuine, hardworking honest, loving and caring.
But we are not compatible at all. No one forced me, for me it was marrying out of convenience, like I have to get married to anyone, why not him?
But now I'm constantly sad. Something keeps hurting me from the inside.
He is 10 years older than me. There's a huge educational background. He's a dropout and I have a double master's in business and finance.
We are not physically, emotionally or intellectually compatible.
I try to focus on good things. I keep reminding myself that it was a best decision on my part but It doesn't feel right. I feel, I settled for less. I feel, he is not good enough. I feel bad for feeling all this. I'm struggling to accept him.
I'm so badly hurting.I don't want to hurt him as well. I don't like him or love him but I respect him as an individual.
But as my partner? I don't know.
I just know every day, there's always are moments when I feel sad and I regret it.
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1 Thessalonians 5:11
Therefore encourage one another and build each other up, just as in fact you are doing.
Mark 12:28-31
And Christ Jesus said the 2 greatest commandments are:
Love God first and foremost.
Love your fellow-being as you love yourself.
From following or not following these, all good or evil cascades, respectively.
Love...that powerful, invisible force that cannot be denied; even atheists live and die by it.
ReplyI already told you to discuss this with him and if he agrees see a marriage counselor.
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