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I'm a friendly person...i have a big gang of friends..both boys and girls.... I'm only close with girls...i just keep my limits with boys...i think it's what all the other girls also do. I just talk and make fun of each other's.. that's it... it's been many years...our friendship bond is good...then one day we are celebrating one of my friends birthday..and we all play with the cake creams...and I hide in the room...we all crazy ,in playing mood..i didn't expect that one of my friend he enter the room and caught me and put the cream on my face...and I said don't do this.. so I try to run...i didn't expect that he grabbed me and harshly put the cream on my face head neck shoulders..hands and... i feel he is so close to me..and I feel so insecure...and he grabbed me from the back... (like hugged me from the back...) I can't move from his crib.. feel uncomfortable from his touch...then one of my friend come...then he lose me... I don't know why he behaves like this.... i clearly don't know about his intentions or am I overthinking...i don't know if it's normal.... I'm not sure.. should I tell this to my friends ? What if this is a misunderstanding?.. after that i always feel uneasy to be normal infrent of him... it's like some fear...or uncomfortable for me....and after that everything seems like he is not a good friend like others... now my thoughts are like he is not a good person.. ! I really don't have any idea what to do.... it's so confusing....is it normal or am I overreacting....? Now a day's the terrible dreams are starts to appear again....😶 And I don't want to mistakenly destroy the friends group...what should I do? Please Tell me...
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I think that you should tell someone that would fully understand what you say and then take it from there based on how it plays out. I am so sorry you went through that and you are NOT overreacting. Take care of yourself while healing, too. Much platonic love, a random.
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ReplyHi there! I'm sorry this happened to you. I know how humiliating and uncomfortable it must've been. It's normal to feel these things, but it shouldn't happen again. Don't be afraid to reach out to this person (or ask your friends for help) and tell him that being treated like that makes you uncomfortable. Chances are, he'll brush it off and think of it as a friendly joke, tell you that you're making too big of a deal about it. But it is a big deal, and you need to let them know.
If your friends aren't willing to go along with what you want, you might have to find new friends. I'm sure most of them will support and understand you, and I know it's scary to confront friends about matters like this. But it's so much better than trying to keep something hidden under the surface with those negative emotions stuck in there.
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