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We've been together for more than 4 years. Then he broke up with me because he has a lot on his plate right now. He said that he can't deal with everything all at once, his family problem, financial problem, academic problem, so he let me go. I agreed 'cause I don't wanna make things hard for him. I don't want him to feel so overwhelmed and if letting me go or having no relationship at this moment will be a breather for him, then okay. I agreed but it doesn't mean that it doesn't hurt. It hurts so much that I feel like I can't move on from this.
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That sucks, I'm sorry. At least he ended it before things got ugly... I have lived through that, when someone's difficulties affect the relationship so bad it's better to end it. Stil, 4 years is a long time. It will take a while to recover. Try to surround yourself with friends and supportive people if you can. The tough part is being alone with your thoughts right now.
Replycouldnt agree more
ReplyThank you, you gave me a new perspective to look at our break up. It hurts and I can't accept this break up right away 'cause I love him so much and he said that he loves me too and if not for the situation his in right now, he wouldn't want to end things with us. I told him that I can wait for him until things on his side got better, but he doesn't want me too. He don't know how long will it take and how long will I wait and said that I deserve someone better - someone who can give me time and can be always there for me. Although it really hurts so bad, I think it's for the better that he ended it 'cause at least we ended in good terms with each other and we're still friends.
ReplyA man who really loves you will do anything for you to stay. If he says he can't what he means is he doesn't need to. Don't be quick to jump over why but I'm sure it's not something you might like, it should be always than may or may not. Don't chase love. Chase your future.
ReplyYeah, I need to focus on my future now. Thank you!
ReplyMy girl-friend also broke up with me last 4 months. We have been for 4 and half years. She said she need freedom and don’t want to be tied by a relationship but after 3 months she have a new boy-friend. This really hurt me so badly. I living like a zombie now. No direction no meaning. Really hard for me to forget her.
ReplyIt's like we're on the same boat. From a person who's somewhat in the same situation as you, I don't know how long would it take for us to fully move on but we need to keep moving forward and focus on ourselves and future for now. It's going to be tough but things would be worth it in the end. Although I love my ex so much, I don't wanna be stuck thinking and crying about him all day while he's already moving ahead with his life. I hope you get better soon and find a new reason and direction to live your life. Take care and stay safe!
ReplyBut sometimes I can’t control my brain. Each second also think about her. Maybe I should find some one to help me to move on 😭
ReplyHey man, it's me. Time flies quite fast, it's been a month already and guess what? I'm not crying over him anymore and I'm doing fine and living my life the way I want it. I'm not as broken as I was a month ago, I already accepted what happened between us and I'm happy that I'm moving forward.
About your idea of finding someone to help you move on, you can. Try going out and meet new people. Who knows, you might find someone that will make you want to move forward with your life and get your shit together. I don't even know if you'll gonna read this but I wish you all the best! I'm rooting for your betterment and happiness. Take care man!
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