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okkk how do I really start. I think I'm in love with this guy lets call him Christian, he's always the guy to cheer me up, smile whenever he sees me, let's me joke around with him but when someone else jokes around with him he doesn't like it, I say I love you and he says it back, I've always been the type just to let my friends know that I'm there for them so that's the reason why I say I love you a lot, but with him and I tell him that I think I love him more than a friend, and he says he loves me to, but what sucks is he's saying it wouldn't work between us but it frustrates me so much bc he says he loves me but sometimes I don't know if he really means it and when I ask him if he really does, he says "yeah _my name____ ofc I mean that, and we joke around, and i'll ask him if we could make it more bc we've been friends for almost 4 years and I always thought that was the reason of why we couldn't start dating but then he's always saying on how he doesn't have a gf yet. It upsets me because I'm waiting for him and what bothers me the most is I try so hard to like/love other people, but he's always on my mind, and 2 months ago I dated this guy and I told the guy I dated I don't know If I really like you and he said "do you like Christian?" and it shocked me bc everyone knows we like each other. And when me and that guy broke up he was pretty chill about it and he honestly was a really cute and sweet guy but he wasn't Christian. Honestly Idrk what to do at this point he says he loves me but doesn't want me?? Says he's looking for a relationship but doesn't choose the girl he loves? but also little thing from before the guy I was dating, Christian was getting pretty jealous it just confuses me on how he could when he says he loves me but doesn't want me? Am I really not that good enough? But I also kinda fked I wanted to see Christian reaction if I dated another guy, dw guys I barely dated that guy probably for like a week and I clarified things with him!! So what should I do? leave Christian? stop talking? He's my homie and my ride or die, I don't wanna ruin things between us? I love him and I wish I could stop bc I think it's hurting me. What should I do?
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It seems that Christian doesn't want you and doesn't want anyone else to have you. He says he loves you because he knows that is what you want to hear, and he is leading you on. He is being cruel to you because he is in a position to be. He isn't a nice person and not worth loving. If I was in your situation the next time he told me he loves me I would tell him I don't love him. And I would say that if he really did love me we would be in a relationship! Then I would leave.
Replyhonestly tysm, I needed this
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