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I got married a year back and it was an arranged marriage. Everything seemed okay at the beginning but started to change once i stepped into his home.. I was humiliated, insulted and made feel bad for unreasonable stuffs. I was not a weak person but I expected my husband to stand for me.. which never happened..
Now after almost a year, it seems I have completely lost my old happy personality and slowly depression creeping into without even giving it much thought.. i tried to reason with my husband but he never ever made me feel that i am not alone in this. My tolerance has slowly drained and i started standing for myself after remaining patient for a year.. that has got me a villian kind of attitude from my in laws which i dont care much. But what really hurts me is that my husband is not understanding all these.. i even told him i dont want to go into depression and he said that it is not his responsibility.. i feel so lonely most of the time. I don't know what to do or how to make him understand ..
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Sounds like you’re not getting any respect or consideration at all and in that case it will only get worse if you stay there. I’m not qualified to give practical advice but am really hoping you find a resolution
ReplyYou've basically sent yourself to prison. Get out now. You have a RIGHT to live a happy life away from people who make you feel depressed. Put YOUR needs BEFORE everyone else, including and especially your abusive husband. That's what THEY are doing, putting THEIR needs first. Do not rely on OTHER people to make your life better. YOU have to do that, as you have a vested interest in YOUR life, more than ANYONE else on the planet. Don't take my honest advice and you'll have a crap life. You'll see.
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