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In February of 2020 I started a relationship with an amazing guy I’ll call J and I was very happy for 1 year and about 2 months, we broke it off over one of his Friends likening me and he thought I liked him but I didn’t so it just left me broken hearted, I couldn’t get over him no matter how hard I tryed.. finally in September I started a new relationship with a guy I’ll just call C, he’s sweet and we hang out like once a week. At the beginning I was still very unsure about this relationship b/c I still liked J, but through the month I was finally practically over J. J posted a story about us and practically saying he still likes me/ is still hung on me. Now it’s got me thinking about my relationship with C and if I’m actually that happy with him. I feel like I get more in my head with C and feel ignored b/c he won’t answer when I snap him eta. I just don’t know anymore but I have told C in my Christmas letter that I love him and hope that we can have happy times forever but I just feel like me and J are more on the same page and get each other more. J would messaged me all the time be a gentleman, he believes a lot of the same things I do. C doesn’t believe the same thing I do but except it and he dose some Dr**s and I don’t really like that…. I just I don’t know anymore.
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well, this is a pretty tough situation, J kinda didn't trust you which is confusing since you guys dated for about a year there should've been some trust there, but if you feel like there's a more connection towards J, then I think you should get back with him, but also you should clear some things out with him, on the other case with C, it's okay if you told him that you love him, you guys should talk things through but don't cover the fact that you like a different guy, my friend was in this position where she told a guy that she didn't like him/ she didn't want to be in a relationship few days later she's back with her ex, and that guy was pretty upset about it, I think you should be honest with both and if C can't understand where you're coming from then that's on him, simply explain your feelings, and let him take a while to process and then talk to J. Lmk how things go!
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