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We met each other after months , I was extremely excited to meet him , why did he not grab my hand as soon as we met ? Why didn't we hug each other instantly when we saw each other.. then the awkward walking away from me ... it got normal at one point we were holding hands but then we decided to watch a movie because we had nothing else to do ... I didn't wanted to see that movie I don't like such films but since he wanted to I eventually agreed... toh now I have started to Hate movies because there is no conversation going between us on the top of that that's 80% of times what we do when we meet and 90% of times it's the movies he is interested in watching... Then before going for movies I said something and he playfully AND suddenly slapped me on my face and I got really mad because he has done it before and I have made it really clear to him that it is really not funny to me ( I have not told him the reason behind it is that I have seen my mother getting beaten up by my father so simply it's my childhood trauma and I do not want my partner to treat me that way ) eventually he says that I am over stretching it ( he still didn't say sorry) and then started showing me memes to make me laugh , I thought this might ruin both of us date so I started behaving normally, we are watching the movie and there is no sitting close to each other like we used to do each time .. I thought maybe he is mad so I grabbed his hand myself... I did that twice or thrice but at the end we were sitting normally, the movie made me quite sleepy toh... we went out sat outside now there is silence... it's not awkward but it's not pleasing either ... before leaving we always hug each other and say ILY but this time he only said bye and then I still pulled him for hug and went back ... now I am not really feeling happy how I used to be whenever I went out with him because I genuinely love him and we should both be happy but now it feels like we both feel worse after seeing each other I met him but I still feel like I miss him ... our conversations are really dry and uninteresting ... this was my side of storey it could be different from his side ( he is not a bad person or anything he is genuinely very caring) I even asked him in chat why was he leaving without hugging me? He said I thought you didn't want me to .. I said why would I not and he said that that's how you are... It feels like our love is fading... We couldn't Meet on his birthday so I made a playlist for him as a gift because unfortunately I couldn't do anything else ... he never mentioned anything about it... I doubt he even read my whole birthday text for him .... or maybe I am overthinking it all ... is it normal to feel this way ? This is our 4th year together if it makes any difference... I would appreciate any advice...
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It isn't good that he slapped your face. I hope he doesn't do anything worse. You should suggest doing something else instead of always seeing movies as this makes your relationship go stale. Liven things up by doing different things. He is selfish expecting you to see movies you don't want to see. Tell him it will be a good idea if you both do some other things that you can both agree on.
ReplySometimes a couple needs a break from each other, as in very limited communication for a short while, to see if there is any feeling of loss. Best of luck.
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