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I GOT MARRIED AT AGE OF 30 TO A GIRL WHO MADE MY STOMACH FLUTTER ,TAKE AWAY MY AWKARDNESS, THOUGH IT WAS AN ARRANGE MARRIAGE BUT I REALLY FALL FOR HER BUT IT BEING A ARRANGE MARRIAGE I COULD NOT GIVE HER ANY HAPPINESS SATISFY HER MIND FULFILL HER NEEDS,IT HAS BEEN 11 MONTHS SINCE SHE LEFT ME AND MY EGO LET ME TO NOT TRY TO TALK TO HER ,NOW AS THE 12 MONTHS BARRIER IS REACHING BY ,EVERYTHING IS DETROYING ME SHE HAS SAID ITS TOO LATE NOW WHEN I GAVE A SMALL TRY
EVERYTHING IS APPEARING TO BE NOTHING EVERYTHING IS FINISHED ,I CANNOT THINK ANYTHING ACCEEPT HER CANNOT TELL HER ABOUT WHAT I FEEL,AND WHY WOULD SHE BE BOTHERED AM THE LEAST SUCCESSFULL PERSON OF THE WORLD,COULD NOT EVEN MAKE MY WIFE HAPPY OR MAKE HER REALISE HOW IMPORTANT SHE WAS TO ME,NOW NOTHING IS LEFT I CANNOT KEEP MYSELF OCCUPIED WHY HAVE I NOT YET COMMITED SUICIDE ASTONISHES ME AM I WAITING FO ANY MIRACLE?
I LOVE HER AND SHE DOES NOT OR THE LOVE SHE HAD IS ALL DESTROYED BY ME,WHY CANNOT I DIE AND GET SOME PEACE IN MY HEART . SHE DOES NOT WANT TO TEXT NEITHER TALK.I HAVE LOST HER THE TIME TO GET HER NOW GOD CANNOT GRANT A MIRRACLE BUT HE CAN GIVE ME DEATH AND WHY NOT WHEN I COULD NOT DO ANYTHING FOR HER AND NEITHER I DID ANYTHING WORTHWILE WITH MY LIFE AND I AM JUST BREATHING I AM LASHING OUT AT OTHERS. I WANT MY PAIN TO STOP BUT OVER TIME IT IS BECOMING MORE PAINFUL RATHER THAN DULLYUNG ITSELF. I AM NOT GETTING ANY INSPIRATION OR HOPE OR DISTRACTION EVERYTHING IS FINISHED NOW
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ReplyLook giving up on life takes you no where... may be she fell in love with someone else so don't force things on her.. talk tou yourself ,exercise, go out ,listen to music...this all might sound petty but it works try to forget her you'll feel productive doing all these things and you'll surely find someone else may be someon yoi're destined with
ReplyI will surely do it...and i know i cannot force her to be with me but my heart is not letting her go...i kept waiting for her to come instead of trying ....i am boring fruits of my folly but this pain is excruciating and i want it to end....it is her choice to be with anyone....but i wanted to be that person ....right now writing this is making me choke....i wish her happiness i wanted to make her happy...but could not do anything for her....y ending my sorrow is wrong and letting time pass right why cannot i give up like I gave up my duties for her
Replysee i have an idea that can make you feel better a little bit. don't text her instead write her a letter not telling her you want her back but apologising because. just do it for yourself do'nt feel embarassed because who cares . just write everything you wished to happen. if she loves you even a little bit she will do sth. about and if not who knows. but this time do it for yourself. you know the thing that is killing you the most is probably the things you regret that you could have done but you did not. so say it and wish her a happy life.
ReplyI ALREADY PUT IT ON WHATSAPP BUT SHE HAS NOT OPENED IT FOR A MONTH NOW AND IT HAS BEEN NOT YT SEEN.....AND IF I OFFICIALLY ACCEPT ANYTHING HER FAMILY MAY USE IT AGAINST ME....I TRIED TALKING BUT SHE WONT MESSAGE ME BACK...AND DOESNOT SEE MY REGRETS ON WHATSAPP
HMMM I HAVE TO NOW LET MY PAIN GO THROUGH ENDURANCE OF TIME ,WHEN NOTHING SEEMS TO BE GOING MY WAY.something may go mine i hope wish pray....pain will go on never stop have to live with it or die
Replyshe must have seen it from her notification and then ignored it so yeah. she's really not interested in you . bro find yourself a hobby or something do something productive everyday and i bet you will definitely move on it is hard but not impossible
ReplyIf there are no children involved, count your blessings. Speaking from experience, romantic love can have a painful end. Sometimes it looks like the end, but then it re-flourishes, and other times it looks like the end and over time you realize it was the end. I have no idea which one is better, all I know is romantic love can re-flourish with the same person you thought it had ended OR with someone entirely new. Best of luck.
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1 Thessalonians 5:11
Therefore encourage one another and build each other up, just as in fact you are doing.
Mark 12:28-31
And Christ Jesus said the 2 greatest commandments are:
Love God first and foremost.
Love your fellow-being as you love yourself.
From following or not following these, all good or evil cascades, respectively.
Love...that powerful, invisible force that cannot be denied; even atheists live and die by it.
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