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I had a long and hard conversation with my boyfriend yesterday. When I am with him I feel less able, less smart, less brave and less strong. I told him I feel uncomfortable energy around him (and all his family members) when we are doing some (new) activities, such as superiority, no hope that I will do well etc.
He explained to me that he feels like I don't have the basics (in physics, geometry, sports...) to learn complex stuff. I do agree to some point but it also makes me feel bad about myself. I know that he did a lot of activities in his childhood that made him more able now but I didn't and I don't know how to change it.
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What? Darling I don't think that's the kind of behavior your boyfriend should be giving you.
Just because you don't have the basics, you can't learn anything new? He is manipulating you into believing that. You are no less than anyone! We are all clueless babies who have no basics in the beginning of our lives.
Tell him to support you. This is not the behavior any person should keep towards anyone. I am disappointed in your bf even though I don't have place to talk.
You need to try something before you can conclude whether or not you can do it. And by try I mean a good 2-3 months, not like one day and you give up. Rome isn't built in a day. Please pursue whatever you want to, and never think lowly of yourself. I believe in you wholeheartedly❣
ReplyHe is making out that he is better than you. He isn't very nice.
ReplyNext time you talk to your bf, ask him why he chose you. If he can't give you 10 mins of uninterrupted praise for your good qualities, then dump him. Unless he can offset his criticism with praise for your good qualities, then he's just keeping you around to make himself feel superior, to give him a sense of control over someone inferior. That's sick and you deserve much better.
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