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I became friends with a guy from my Spanish class, for the most part he was really kind and told me a lot about himself. He opened up to me about his struggles in life and seemed to be a really nice person. He told me that he wanted to spread kindness to people and i volunteered to help. Our friendship was the weird kind, well known guy friends with the quite reserved girl, yet we made it work. He promised me that he wasn't pretending to be my friend and that he would never do anything that'll hurt me. He lied. He's ignoring me at school and through text. He won't even look at me anymore..was i just some object to help him pass the time? Was i not worthy enough to be his friend? I don't understand why he's ignoring me.. I tell my friends that i'm over it, but its not true..it hurts a lot and i'm not sure how to take it. Necesito ayuda, i need help.
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Maybe you are too much for your friend at times, especially if you say they are quiet and reserved and you like for everyone to know you as you said. I have a friend that I have to shut off sometimes for my own well being because he can get callous and selfish in his self centeredness at times and I only need to take a break from him to regain myself from him having what in my eyes is him basically pushing me down on a playground. Then I only need to return back to my authority and quickly be shown ‘no, you are a good honest person, pay no mind to people who play that way’. In this way, I’m quickly able to regain my self worth and again can enter the playground where my friend is basically throwing his arms around because everything always needs to be about him. There is nothing wrong with this, and I’m sure most people enjoy even just looking at him. For me, I like my break from him because it’s necessary to refocus myself in that I’m very valuable, because it can get pushed out sometimes by such a friend.
ReplyMove on, people who ghost other people are trouble. He is doing you a favor by leaving your life early on. No matter how he might feel about you good or bad, you have feelings and you deserve an explanation and if he is too much of a coward to give you one, then he was dead weight to begin with that you were going to have to discard later on in life, consider yourself lucky.
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