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It seems my brother is making plans for throwing down our cottage and building a new one but the problem is I am a co-owner and he does not discuss it with me. The problem is it is family heritage and I would like to keep at least something of the cottage where generations of my family lived.
I am tired of him. Today he cut down the branches of granny´s magnolia tree which is about to bloom. 😠 Whole garden is full of branches because he cuts them down but he leaves them on the place; so I really wonder how he will cut the grass during summer.
It makes me frustrated because not only my mom is controlling me bud also he does and I want my own space without them involved. The co-ownership of the cottage was my biggest mistake I agreed with and I was right when I said the best idea would be only one owner of the cottage.
But nooo he has to put his nose into everything, I think it was my mom´s idea because she still thinks I can not do it alone. She was pushing me to co-ownership of a flat in the city where we studied and to have a mortgage together with my brother. WORST IDEA EVER. Luckily I was wise enough not to agree with that. She still wants us to live together under one roof and I can not imagine this. IDK what to do... she is like "deep breathing" when I say I want to leave home, I want to go abroad but she still put this mental pressure on me and I feel guilty about wanting it...
when I had lunch with a man last time she wanted to see his photo and then she was insulting him (she never met him). IDK what she expects me to do? to stay single for the rest of my life and live under one roof with my brother? I have this weird feeling
was someone in such a situation? what did you do? I am too scared and anxious to do any steps
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I'm guessing your mom is on the older side, if you're not physically threatened and have the option of leaving at the end of the day do so. I think your mom is afraid of abandonment, but one day it will have to happen. first I advise you to move somewhere close where you can visit her regularly for a few months then go abroad. once you go abroad and I'm guessing you have strained relationship with her but you still love her and want to keep in contact, so make her feel involved about what you did as if she is travelling with you. but keep your boundaries ex: if you want to keep your love life private don't bring it up while talking to her and if she does just tell her " nothing much has been happening " until you're ready to tell her.
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