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why is it when i start trying to tell a little piece of my problem, people around me always assume things by their own standard? and they are mostly very wrong about it too. i wish sometimes people would encourage me to talk more about my problem. i wish they show more willingness to listen to my problem. instead they just drill me with advice comes from their own belief of my problem.
sometimes i just want to be heard. is it too much to ask? the problem is that im too polite to cut them down when they talk, because i know how it felt to be cut down when i talk. but they dont think of it in that way at all. why am i surrounded by this kind of people in the first place anyway? and i seem to surround myself more with those type, as i grow up?
actually, i have one friend who would calmly ask me my perspective when i tell my problem. im really grateful for that one friend. sometimes it feels like i dont deserve them. i feel like i cant always burden one friend forever, they are also busy with their own life right? but it's all i wanted sometimes, to be heard. i wish i can find more people like that in my life, without feeling guilty or undeserving.
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Why do you tell people your problems when you can have nice conversation with them on general topics. Tell your problems to counselors or therapists only and you won't have this problem to add to the rest.
Replyyeah, good point. no one owes me anything. i just felt so pent up yesterday that i can only vent on anonymous website.
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