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I have this dilemma. internal fight rather. Im someone who wants to remain chaste yet also someone who is so horny and wants that feeling of euphoria. So, btw, im not a virgin, i lost it with someone who i thought I was gonna get married to, i dont regret losing it to him because he was a respectful person who i did love, BUT i do wish that i hadnt? i think thats because to me it means something and I want to be able to have shared moments like that with someone ill spend the rest of my life with, but also, I am so so so horny, and my period time doesnt help. Masturbation doesnt exactly help because i mean, not my thing? plus idk, not the same, especially i also want that emotional part when im horny, not just the physical. I know im not someone who can do random hook ups.
I have friends with mixed opinions
2 of them are like, just fuck someone and get it done with? but im like no, i need it to mean something, because tbh, one time i did just do it, but that was in a full blown spiral of life where i was ready to be dead 2 days later. But now that i want a life, a future, sleeping with a rando/ex is not something I want. It being a point of discordance has led to us rarely talking about it now
But my other friends get what i mean which im so thankful for.
But seriously, even hobbies arent quenching these random urges i have sometimes.
good lord i dont know anymore what to do
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As someone who wants to wait until marriage (I didn’t. I gave in one time), I would honestly recommend holding out if remaining chaste is a priority and holds deeper meaning for you. I also gave in at a time when I wasn’t happy. So now I just feel regret looking back. If you associate remaining chaste with your values and your future, having sex now might only give you a short term rush, while waiting out is a longer term reward. It really just depends on how big a priority remaining chaste is to you. Weighing up if its worth it or not 🤷♀️
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