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I've always thought of her as a friend. That was until I started talking to someone who told me that our friendship was toxic. When they first said it, I doubted them. After all, me and her have been frienda for 7 years. But today, I lost my wallet. The first thing I think when I lose it? No, it's not "what if someone stole it" or "am i gonna have to cancel my cards?" The first thought that crossed my mind was, "Oh no, she's gonna be mad at me for losing my card." This might be a normal thought if I were a kid given a card by their mom or if I were dating someone I guess. But we are both grown women and here I am worrying about what my "friend" will think or do when she figures out I can't treat her to food after work. Will she cuss me out? Will she just yell at me? Or will she simply say a few mean words? Honestly, after the talk with my other friend about her, I can see how much she's damaging my mental health.
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ReplyMaybe dump her and find another friend.
ReplyRunnnnnnnnn….if this person has got into your head that bad already, you are already in too deep. Friendship is about understanding and loving one another and uplifting each other, not fear and intimidation. Even at your faults a real friend calls you out on your bs, and your response should be appreciation and admiration for their honesty, not retaliation. Drop this dead weight and find people who appreciate you, these days its very hard to find, but anything is better then having a negative, toxic person in your life.
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