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So whatever my original plan was about my career is not happening , i did not pass the examination. Now we are on backup plans. My father and i have different choices for my major. Well, he has made peace with my choice but he isnt too happy . Now comes the university. He wants me to go in an all girls university which is good no doubt , but i don't want to go there. It is a very strict university , like you are allowed to leave the campus once in a month and that too on their buses and everything. I have always studies in co-ed and i really want to enjoy this phase of my life , i have been a dedicated student (tho i failed my exam but i was), i prepared for my exam for two years and havent really gone out much for those two years. I know college life isnt all golden but their are some experiences which we can experience during the college life and i want to.
i don't know how to tell him that , he will be upset and he will think i m going there just to have fun and stuff and not studying but thats not the case i really dont want to spend next 4 yrs in a place which my intuitions are telling me won't be a happy place for me.
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But if you really hate the idea so much then dont go. Just sit down and think of 6 clear reasons why you wouldnt want to.
ReplyFriend, this is your future we're talking about — not your father's. It's good to have a guiding hand like his on a career choice, and perhaps failing the exam gave you a look into what you might want, but you have to remember that you will have to live with a career of convenience and not conscience.
In the career path for which you took the exam, are you allowed to retake it? It sounds like you worked hard over two years to study. Was that where your interest was?
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