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Since we were young, she's always had to be the best. She's always had to have the best. And me? I didn't care enough to do anything about it. I was the kid who lost on purpose if someone cared too much about winning. Yeah, that's not really good either. Since I was so nonchalant about a lot of stuff, and my older sister wasn't, my parents often would appease her by not letting me do certain things when given the opportunity because they feared my sister's jealousy, and worried some things would wreck our relationship. They feared if I got attention, she'd flip out. Guess what now?? It still happens to this day. I don't really try to make conflict, nor do I go out of my way to be a people pleaser, but my existence annoys my sister because she feels inferior, and I feel like she always will unless she gets therapy or works on herself more because this is a life long problem. I am annoyed with my sister's behavior, but I still try to help her, but sometimes I don't even know what to do anymore.
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Replyi cannot compare me to you since i am an older sister and my younger sister was always jealous of me, and she resents me to this day , treats outsiders better then me, and my mother is the same, their both toxic, my advice is cut toxic people from your life, regardless, who they are, and ignore ignorant friends of your sisters, . I have learned one thing, its an old saying , keep your friends close and your enemies closer, and those who stir the shit pot can lick the spoon
Replysounds like you're a narcissist, because its not a matter about winning, it's a matter who is favorited by a parent. i have a sister that is a narcissist and sound like you, always picking on the one that is talented, sounds like your jealous
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