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I m 20 f and I m a Muslim. I was raised in a household where abuse was really high and favouritism was common and my mom carried out the main parts. The thing is that my mom always forces me to talk to people who I don't have any interest and when I say no I get yelled for it saying I should talk to people who are nice to me. I know that talking to nice people is a good thing but If I don't have any attraction or interest I will obviously will not talk. I m not a type of person where I decide to talk to people just because they got the looks or because of their class or their education level. It always felt like she cares about herself more than my happiness and i m scared that if I end up getting married to the person who I don't love even if the boy loved me it would seriously ruin both of us. So please kindly give me some advice
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You're both right in my opinion in ways. Not her about favoritism but in that you should speak to those who are nice to you. Doesn't have to be a lot. Just simple hellos and thank yous at the very least. If you don't have attraction or interest you should still be nice. However she shouldnt yell at you but she is trying to teach you to be courteous to people it seems. But no by no means should you get married to someone you don't love. It may speaking up for yourself to get your wants made known. You're wise for being 20. So don't allow them to run over you.
ReplyStop letting other people, even parents infantalise you.
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