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Reasons I wanna be male:
1) I'm fat ugly girl, male built as it is, would have more attractive body and face as male
2) I have too much anxiety and dependence on others, could gain more confidence as male
3) I can just be a straight male who doesn't have to take so much care of myself, just change and go
4) the girl I will never stop loving has stopped loving me. But she loved me for me at one point, and I'm tired of being reminded that. I don't wanna be that girl anymore, not the one she fell for
5) I hate this female body and how most men use it, but most women reject it
Reasons I wanna stay female:
1) I'm afraid of change, especially drastic change
2) I was born with this body, I will be sad to abandon it 😢 that's what it feels like. It feels like abandonment
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The choice is yours, but maybe you could find someone to talk to, a support group for trans people in your city, to help you understand your feelings and decide the best course of action. I think it's okay to take the time you need to make this decision, but you don't have to be alone (at least, if you don't want to). I'm sure a lot of people might relate to your feelings and experiences (I myself have felt a lot of what you describe, and it's all perfectly legitimate). Anyways, I wish you the best in whatever you decide to do. Send you a virtual hug!
ReplyDon't let men use it. You are in charge of your own body.
ReplyYou can't abandon it. Your female skeleton isn't going anywhere. No matter how many hormones you take of the opposite sex, you'll always walk and run and move and bend like a female as your female skeleton cannot change to a male skeleton.
Replythat is extremely insensitive, they can still be a man if they’d like. it doesn’t matter what kind of skeleton they have, they are male of the mind and heart.
ReplyYou'll also die with this body.
ReplyHey look... the thing is, the reasons you're giving all seem to be rooted in insecurity and self-hatred about your own body. Becoming male won't get rid of that - it's like trying to run away from yourself, you can't do it. I'm not saying don't be trans, but don't do it for these reasons. These aren't the right reasons. These problems need to be addressed, sure, but not like this - not by trying to escape from them. Please know that I'm saying this with the greatest compassion and respect - I just want you to make the best decisions and be happy with them.
ReplyI think you'd change your mind if you just found love without making a major change.
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