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I am a teenage guy (19) with alot of dreams and hopes in my future. Recently I became to notice that I'm slowly getting bald.the reason behind it is actually my life style,stress and lack of nutrition. my brother went to the same situation that I'm going through right now. Due to this problem he ended up doing hair plantation.
Now I'm not actually worried about hair plantation or hair loss all I'm worried is about my future. I never had a girlfriend before in my life. I'm seriously worried about what if no one is going to accept me if get bald in near future.
Since I have never been in relationship I have alot of curiosity and dreams about my future but due to this one barrier im almost depressed.
You may think baldness is not actually a big thing when you want alot in future but there is a guy in my neighborhood who is in the well paying job. But still due to his baldness his parents are still struggling to get a women to marry him and Guess what he's almost 37 now.
I know the only way to prevent me from disaster is to take care of me and my health. Still my brain doesn't seem to be accepting it.
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if women didn’t like bald men, all bald men would be single, and they are not. so, women like bald men.
ReplyMany women start off with a man who has all his hair and years later, he's bald. It doesn't mean she likes bald if she had a choice.
ReplyI know this is a very real problem, I'm also losing my hair at a young age and no matter what they say, hair makes a HUGE difference in what people think about you. I'm not just talking about getting a girlfriend either... People treat you very differently.
I wish I had an answer for you, but the truth is we can send rockets to Mars but we can't grow hair on someone's head. Don't bother with the pills, they made it worse for me. Some new hairs grew but they're really thin and they fall out fast along with your normal hairs. Disaster.
Well this is pretty cringe but I just wear a hat. That's all we can do. You can definitely make a decent 1st impression on someone with your head covered. At least they won't immediately judge you as "that bald guy". So you have a chance. Sure it'll be awkward when you eventually reveal your head but.... what else can you do?
ReplyMy dad went bald as a teenager. My mom met him after he had lost most of his hair. They got married, had several kids, and twenty-some years later are still very happily together. I firmly believe they will grow old together, and love each other deeply to the end. I have seen them stand strongly by each other during hard times and easy times.
For my mom, she actually says bald men were her type. I have also occasionally found myself atrracted to bald men when their personalities were welcoming and safe. Although I would by no means call it my type.
If the bald guy in your neighborhood cannot find a girlfriend, I assure you it has nothing to do with the outside of his head and probably much more to do with what goes on inside it. Just be a good person, and be yourself. Someone will come along and love you.
ReplyDon’t make assumptions about your neighbors reason for not getting married. You don’t know what’s behind closed doors or closed hearts. Some women like or have a strong type towards bald men. I get that you’re worried though because you’re inly 19 but my friend is literally getting married to a guy who’s bald. Granted it’s a sensitive topic for him for some reason but his fiancé loves him and tells him to not grow out his hair. Point is beauty is so so so subjective. If being bald is your biggest problem, take a step back and relax a bit. I don’t think the baldness is your biggest problem though, it sounds like your self esteem is !! You’re so much more than the hair on your scalp.
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I’m not saying don’t try to get hair. If I were in your position I’d really want to grow it probably just knowing myself especially at this age. Doesn’t mean you can’t be confident regardless. Not a doctor yet so can’t give advice but you seem to believe you know the cause… stress and stuff. May be genetically predisposed too since your brother had it. Recommend speaking to a medical professional and working on targeting the underlying causes which you mentioned and try to forget chasing a girlfriend now. Be the best version of yourself, work on yourself and the right woman will hopefully bless your life. Praying for you and the guy in your neighborhood lol. Trust me people have gotten happily married with a lot more physical insecurities than yours. Also the right woman will see much greater value in a man beyond such a thing, not saying you shouldn’t try be more attractive or aren’t already or it isn’t important but woman are generally more attracted to other things in men and there’s alot you can do to make up for it.
Replybeing bald isn’t the worst thing but make homemade rosemary oil and massage your hair with it every night before you fall asleep and then wash it out in the morning it helps the hair cells and it will help, trust me!
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