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Lately I've been working on myself and I realized I was still in love with my crush I had for 2 years...yet I'm in a relationship with a guy other than him for about 2 months now... I like my boyfriend but I also very like this boy. Now the problem is that I still love a lot my past crush cause I've spend 2 years gettin to know him and not my current boyfriend. My crush have gotten in a relationship with a girl 3-4 months and she left him in msg and it totally broke him. That much that he want to kill him self. It really broke me when he got in a relationship with her and to forget him I started to get to know another guy who was there for me when he wasn't so I could make him jealous. But I felt for him or what I thought was love... But i realized that i might have used him and I feel too bad to broke with him because I'm in such a deep relationship with him. he told me he was gonna help me to not think of him, but my feeling are so pure only for my crush and not for him. I don't wanna break up with him too because I know he would kill himself and i'm scared. I know him. What do I do?
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If you don't want to break up with him, will you be able to love him fully? Probably not based off what you wrote there. You'll be hurting him both ways. You need to realize what seems to be the best decision for you and your emotions. But then, even if you do break up, what would happen afterwards? Are you going to keep crushing on that boy forever? That's not healthy either.
Here's what I think:
You already have someone who loves you. As you mentioned, you're in such a deep relationship with him. However, your crush- is just a crush. If u want to comfort and console your crush, you can totally do that, but it doesn't mean you end that relationship with your bf. I suggest deepening your relationship with your boyfriend more, spend more time with him- you've only been dating him for 2 months. Perhaps it's best to give it time. Even if you do think you used him, it's not that late to change your mindset, and use that as an opportunity to continue a loving relationship.
I've had a deep crush too, but at the end, I realized I should focus on what truly is important. Taking things slowly, and taking your time really helps. You're in no rush. You can figure this out, and I hope you end up making the best decision for yourself.
ReplyHe won't kill himself... Just tell them... I'm pretty sure they can take it
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