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I recently resigned from my previous company full of misogynists and I worked there together with my partner/boyfriend. My boss fancy him because he's pretty good at his job as a full stack developer and wanted to keep him tied to the company by offering him a stockholder position.. even though he doesn't have any money to invest to the company. I hate their influence especially when it comes to women and sex (imagine watching porn with your boss in the office). They see women as an accessory in their lives and take note, I was the only woman in the office since it was a start up company and there were a total 6 of us striving to lift the company up... To add up, they treat us like children. Imagine being a full stack developer for 2 years and still have a salary of 12000 pesos a month (215 dollars a month MINUS BENEFITS). They were narcissists and gaslighting people. I was suffocating everytime I went to the office and so I resigned, leaving my partner in their hands....
Anyways I wanted to ask help or advice about what I truly feel about my partner. He's reaaaaally into working for that company even thought he's SEVERELY UNDERPAID. I hate the fact that he enjoys working with those misogynistic and narcissistic people and he's starting to get infected by their influence... He laughs at offensive joke involving women, he approaches me like a pervert ( rubbing his genitals when I sleep or touching my private parts randomly) and it's getting annoying. Did I also mention he lives in my family's house for free? He gets free food, free water, free place to sleep in and somehow I can't have some privacy.. I want to live alone at least for a month without him. I'm starting to loose interest to my partner especially knowing that he LOVES working on a company that offends not only me but generally all women in the world. I don't know If I still love him :'( he's my first boyfriend by the way and I don't even know if he still loves me or just taking advantage of me.... I don't know what would happen if we break up. All I know is that I need space and time to contemplate with myself....I just want to be alone. What do you guys think I should do :(
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You need to leave. That does not have to be your life. You could have a normal life. Make your own decisions. That's what strong women do. Don't put up with sexist bullshit. You don't have to. I don't put up with that and neither do you.
ReplyHe'll only get worse. Tell him to live somewhere else.
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