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Am I.. asking for too much?
My boyfriend is the type who forgets things easily. We've also just been together for 9 months.
I've told him that for me, a good morning text is, like my love language? I feel reassured when I get a text from him in the morning, it makes me think that he at least remembers me eventhough he tends to forget about other things about us.
I've started being the one to text him good morning first lately so I decided to stop for a bit, and he hasn't texted me good morning at all.
I know I'm probably overthinking this but, does this mean anything? Did he forget about me feeling reassured by a good morning text from him? Idk typing this all out makes me sound dumb now ngl.
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Some people are just not morning people. But if it were me I'd keep texting him. Send some words of encouragement. He he continues to act ghosty sorry to say I'd bee looking at if he's really into you.
On the guy side my last relationship the morning texts to her went on for a year. Then she'd forget to reload her phone (tracphone) so my texts would bounce. After a while I just stopped. When my texts went unanswered for days I had to think the worst.
But keep at it. Or when you have some snuggle time, bring it up casually. A Doe Eyed "you like my good morning texts?" Always works. ;)
ReplyI couldn't have related more...I always felt that I am the one trying too hard because I would always text him first because I realised I have anxiety ...But then for a moment I tried to stop..Then I waited for a long time...but if he didn't replied within a day I would text him...Then sometimes he would just randomly text a good night at 8 and then we would talk all over again...Started walking up to "good Morning sunshine " texts ... I think you should ask him again...if he puts the efforts he is definitely into you but if not I am sorry to say..See if a person loves you...A night owl can also become an early riser.
ReplyYou are overthinking this. When I get up in the morning and I have limited time to get showered, dressed, make coffee, make breakfast, pack my stuff and then drive to work, checking my phone doesn't even register in my head. I will hear it pinging but unless I'm expecting something important before I leave, I don't have the mental capacity to answer it let alone text my partner good morning (not that I don't want to).
If you're happy when you're together then don't worry about it. Continue to text him good morning and if he texts back, that's great and I'm happy for you. But remember that good morning texts are your love language and not his, it probably isn't something that he naturally thinks to do, it doesn't mean he doesn't love you or care.
Though a good morning text is always lovely, focus on how he is when you're together. If he is into you, wants to spend time with you, treats you well then I think he can be forgiven not being a big morning person.
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