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I bullied my ex best friend and now I feel guilty
8 months ago · 3 · Ex best friend, +4 · Explicit
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we were friends for 13 years and I ruined it.
I talked shit about her to some friends because I was fucking jealous of her and I didn't like when people were friends with her. I would get mad when they talk to her so I would seem upset with her. She was never that confrontational person so I would manipulate her by saying all of her friends are terrible and that they're all ugly and that none of them deserve her and she sat there quietly and I knew she wouldn't saying anything until later that day I saw her and she walked up to me and yelled and was mad at the way I said that to her friends. She told me that she thought about it a lot and she wasn't gonna let it slide. I played dumb and I made everyone go against her and it was a huge drama. Her friends stuck with her they listened to her and she stuck with them while I watched her be with better people. In the end of the whole friendship I thought she lost her confidence she barely spoke. She just looked sadder and after a week I saw her again walking in the hallways and she started to apologize and I told her she was worthless and stupid for even trying to bring our friendship back and then she left it. Towards the end of the school year I didn't realize how much she's changed. She looked stunning and gained more confidence and mostly by the way she walked. She seemed so much happier and always had a smile across her face. This one girl said "wow (her name) you look so pretty and after that it was a domino effect and everyone started complimenting her and I tried to get her attention but she didn't look my way. I was completely invisible in her eyes. Now it's a new year and I'm too scared to face her. She's new. And I kinda hate it.
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Replythe only thing you are in control of is your own thoughts, your own words and your own actions. Trying to control anything else will end in disaster. We all need to learn certain lessons and this is a lesson for you. Don't be annoyed at her happiness. All you can do is move forward and try to be a better person from now. I have had many instances like this myself and it is humbling. I hope you can remain humble and you can grow from this
ReplyWhenever you feel like you hate her .. think to yourself has this person ever done anything bad to you? And then the answer will make it clear for you to decide what you are doing is correct or not .
I know it's quite easy to get stuck in the trap of jealousy but trust me it will never take you anywhere .The only thing it will cause is making you sad about yourself and you will probably wear yourself out thinking of ways to ruin someone else's life and you could cleanly have used that time to better yourself..
So acknowledge this fact and try to get a hold over your thoughts.
I know you can do this 🌸
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