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I feel so alone and left out. Its so hard to live. No one can understand me. my family hate each other. I feel like all of them are using me to get the power to blame other. I really dont know whether they love me or actually care about me. They feed me and they support me through spending money. But they always keep the checks so they can show it to the court. My grandmother cooks for me and my father. But sometime I mean other than cooking she is a witch. She tells me I have not anyone. She tells me my mother is using me againsts my dad. And my mother wished me and my dad will be mental patiens. So I feel thats true. And after she dies ,i will left alone like a begger. My relatives (dads side) also dont like me because of my mom. And my neighbour friends are also dont like me because my grandma hate them. My whole village know about my family's situation. My dad, I think he is broken inside. He had a lot with my mom. But he is a good man. But he is more weeker than me so he can not stand up against them. Also in my school I act like a total looser. I dont have friends.And kids think I am boring. My personality is weak . My confidence is gone. But I have the best results i n my school. Dont onow why I am writing this but if you can just give an answer to me, thanks a million time . It actually means so much in this hard time.
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I am sorry that this is happening to you now but it won't be forever. I had a mother who hated me because she was jealous of my dad having anything to do with me and tried to turn me against my dad. I hated school but I knew the day would come where I would leave school and home and get on with my life and I looked forward to that day. So, you also have that day to look forward to where you will leave home and school and begin a new life leaving all of these bad things behind you. You have a good life to look forward to so hang in there and do the best you can. With you having the best results at school you should get a good job when you leave and prosper while others will have poor paying jobs or be not able to find work. Look on the good side and I wish you all the best.
ReplyHey, kid. You’re so strong, you know that? After reading your post, what I understood wasn’t you being a loser, instead I see a determined fighter.
You should know that it isn’t common for a young kid like you to be facing so many issues like this, BUT please understand that this is EXACTLY what is going to push you forward. You have nowhere else to go but up. So, kid, I’m going to let you know the truth. This is not going to be easy for you. It’s going to hurt, there’s going to be a lot of questions, you’re going to cry a lot, you’re going to have to work harder than anybody else, and most importantly, you’re going to have to grow up faster than you should.
Tough environments create strong people. Do NOT give up. Never let that happen. You can do it and the fact that you have good results is already proof that you can do anything you put your mind to. It’s okay to not have confidence, everyone feels insecure and not confident; that’s totally normal. What you should know is that confidence is BUILT upon. People get confident when they get better at something. Ask yourself what you can improve on, and don’t stop working on that.
Kid, you’re destined for great things. In a difficult situation like this, it is to give you strength. Don’t lose hope because what you’re going through right now is going to pass. You have to be strong for yourself. In the future, you will understand so please have faith. When the future comes, you are going to be a great person who can do lots and lots of things. It’s okay to be sad, let yourself cry it all out. But remember, every tough situation has a lesson. Ask yourself what you can learn from this situation. I believe you have already learnt a lot, so keep going.
You said you have the best results in school, so you can try helping other kids in their studies. Being kind is a quality that will take you a long way. You’re not a loser, you are a fighter, remember this.
I know it’s hard sometimes, and there can be nobody for you to rely on. That’s okay, you can rely on yourself. You will learn how to solve your problems by yourself. This is the best.
Kid I hope you know you are going to be okay, and if you need help, I will always be happy to help you. Stay strong.
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