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I know one of my biggest issues is that I am an avoidant person. One of the reasons I am realizing I am avoidant in social life is because I actually do fear something. I hate the thought of letting people down, and the closer I become to people, the chances of me hurting them/failing them/letting them down increases. I'd rather be on my own most of the time, not just because of this fear, I mean there are multiple reasons. Honestly, it's just easier to not become close with others. Less drama, pain, less people trying to use me so I have to spend energy to shut that crap down, less conflict in general. I don't even hate people. I just don't like being close to many of them even if I may come across as friendly to lighten the atmosphere. I feel like I could go on about all this, but it's enough for now.
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I feel that. But just tighten the circle of who you let in. I have 2 ppl from hundreds, keep those you love close. Others can fuck off
ReplyI thoroughly agree with you. After the last three friends I had who were nasty I am more than happy to be alone and just have a few acquaintances at the shops.
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