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Why does she treat me like some kind of slave..
It's barely been 4 months since I gave birth under unforseen circumstances..
Does she not care that I'm still recovering..
She wants me to cook, and clean up after..
I honestly don't understand her intentions.. her behavior towards me..
To the outsiders she looks like the best mother in law anyone would ask for.. since they know she has 3 girls and a boy...
They say "ohh how lucky the daughter in law is" to get a mother in law who has 3 daughters.. she must be treating her like her own daughter..
But alas the outsider doesn't have the slightest idea as to what goes on in the house/ behind closed spaces..
Today I went for my baby's 14 week vaccines..
I left thinking that once I'm back I'll find the bedroom spick and span.. since it hadn't been cleaned since the day before yesterday..
But you can just imagine what I came to find when I got back from the hospital.. first and foremost she wants the baby.. she demanding me to give her my baby just coz she wants to play with her... and I'm like no way.. she just got her injections.. she needs to eat and sleep..
Later on the baby started crying when put on the bed because she was in pain.. I'm trying to calm her.. I just took her in my arms and this woman comes running give her to me... and I'm like can you chill please... let me try keep her calm.. if she doesn't calm down I'll give her to you..
The room was the same way I left it.. with addition of ironed and folded clothes that were kept in the room for me to put away in the respectful places..
I asked her why she didn't get my room cleaned.. her answer " I didn't get it cleaned because you would complain about misplaced items".. that is such a lame excuse.. cleaning my room does not include touching my arrangements..
It only includes getting the bed done, the floor swept and wiped.. period.. not dusting no wiping of furniture..
She got the audacity to tell me that she got her other work done which was a lot..
I lost my cool and asked her what was more important.. making sure the bedroom is cleaned well for the baby to just come feed and sleep or keeping her nonsensical pillows and blankets away.. which could literally be done later on during the day...
She didn't answer to that.. and just left..
Later on during lunch time.. hubby had come home for lunch.. first off her food was just shit... she made some veggie rice and potato curry which she also made day before..saltless and tasteless.. I didn't eat the curry but her son did and that was his comment.. so as we continued the lunch session I asked him if he was fine with sandwich for dinner.. and he agreed.. so we started discussing how I'd get the bread home.. since I couldn't leave the baby alone and go for shopping.. he mentioned how busy he was going to be till late evening.. and he told his mother if she could get it from the supermarket.. and her immediate response is say what I can't go to the supermarket my feet hurt alot.. so I said it's ok I'll go get the bread.. to which hubby refused coz of the baby...
He went and got them for me..
Later on after lunch.. this woman comes to tell me that she is going to get her hair colored.. I didn't say anything... but I couldn't keep quiet either .. so I went to her and asked her if her leg pain was gone .. and she immediately says yes it's gone.. then I rubbed on her face about why she refused to go get the bread.. her response " I don't like going down to the supermarket" I said you could have simply just said that.. instead of lying about your feet hurting...
I was about to leave her room knowing I've said what I wanted to and I notice something else.. from her wardrobe lock was a key with a keychain.. my keychain which was a gift from one of hubby's clients... I had kept it in my bedroom over the counter.. I asked her where she got it from since I've been looking for it for a few days...
She responds by saying it was kept carelessly in my room and so she saw fit to take it... now I don't have a problem with her having the keychain... I have sooo many I've lost count... my problem is why she took it without telling me.. I wouldn't say no if you saw it and asked me if you could have it...
I asked her if she has ever seen me taking things from her room without asking her first.. I even said that she knows where each and everything is in my room.. reason I said that was because she snoops around my bedroom when I'm not around..
She literally looks into everything..
Otherwise how does someone start saying I have ABC in my room and I should use it.. and the only person who knows where my things are is me..
She felt bad about me talking like that and she immediately returned the keychain..
The day is not over .
I've yet to prepare for the sandwiches whilst also taking care of the baby..
While that woman I call her HITLER.. is seated on her fat ass watching television.. Giving no damn of helping with dinner prep..
Anywho... this is me signing off as now baby is asleep and that gives me an opportunity to start the prep.. as I'm ravaged from not having proper lunch..
I'll tell you what goes through the night in tomorrow piece..
Till then.. good evening to all.. take care and be safe.. remember always to stay happy..
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