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My boyfriend loves me. He is not obsessed with me. He is healthy and normal. But because he is not clingy and obsessed with me, it makes me believe he does not love me. It becomes very hard to remember that he is attracted to me for this reason solely. What is wrong with me?
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When you get older you'll realize love is just someone that uses you for stuff and you use them for stuff. Like falling in love is totally great but it's not like that forever. Love is people being patient with their lovers and learning how to live with someone and dealing with their b.s. for however long the relationship lasts. So the bottom line is finding someone who you can deal with for the long haul. Fairy tale love does not exist. And if soul mates are a real thing, it's pretty much impossible to find them.
ReplyThere is nothing wrong with you, we all define love our own way. Tbh I’m like you, I require a partner who is obsessed with me and who worships me (and I am the same way with them). If that intensity isn’t there then I don’t bother. The downside is you have to be comfortable being alone for long periods of time because finding a match like that is rare and hard to find. But if you’re ok waiting for the right one then it’ll be worth it. And you’ll never get stuck in a loveless/passionless relationship. Keep high standards and you won’t be disappointed :)
ReplyI actually have the same thoughts wtf?
ReplyI kinda agree with the comments too. There is nothing wrong in asking for a relationship where both the parties are crazy about each other. This intensity or passion might fade away with time but it should be there atleast during the honeymoon phase of a relationship. There's nothing wrong with you for asking for more!
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