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I think I am really obsessed with someone. I love him. But he doesn't even know I exist. The chances of me with him is lil to no. I don't know. I am not a type of person to get obsessed over with something. Even when I got my new phone, I was never so obsessed as other kids. But with him, I just find my way to stare, to read about him, to imagine him. I know all of these is wrong, very wrong. But I don't know.... I want him to win, like always, always. But I have to get through it.I have to. How to do it? Any advices?
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Love is probably the wrong word. Try using "infatuation", keeping in mind that most of us go through this at some point in our lives. I'd venture to say it is usually harmless, as long as you stay focused on your short term goals. Best of luck.
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Therefore encourage one another and build each other up, just as in fact you are doing.
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Love God first and foremost.
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From following or not following these, all good or evil cascades, respectively.
Love...that powerful, invisible, intangible force that cannot be denied; even atheists live and die by it.
ReplyYou can keep liking that person... wishing for someone else's good... is a rare feeling... so kind of u to have that.... you are a really great person... you wish for someone who is not yours... to achieve so much and all the good things for them... it is really a very good heart of yours...
if you see it as a problem... maybe accepting your feelings to that person... will help.. once it is out... it feels light and better to let go...
or maybe write an anonymous letter to that person... it will be good to let it out... and then this feeling would fade away slowly...
you can stop expecting for that person to respond back... if that's a problem
anyways... i don't know much about ya situation... just a stranger... maybe u can try these... and see... idk... take ya time... good luck... proud of u :))
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