What's this situation? Am I wrong?

I have a long-distance boyfriend. After years of friendship, I confessed that I liked him. He was initially confused, but after a few days, he admitted that he liked me too, and we started calling each other girlfriend and boyfriend.We started our relationship.

I wanted to get a job in his city so that we could finally meet. However, he's often busy with work, rarely finding time to wish me good morning or good night.

I don't see much excitement in his communication. Occasionally, he randomly says he misses me and loves me, but we don't have daily conversations.

I used to miss him and crave his time & attention, thinking he was busy on working days and waiting for weekends. Yet, even on weekends, he sometimes forgets to talk, or he's too busy.

He doesn't provide compliments or appreciation.

I've had clear conversations with him about this, but nothing has changed.

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Now, I've relocated to a new city for a purpose, and I'm accustomed to not talking to him. I no longer wait for him, miss him, or feel a connection. Our situation hasn't improved despite our discussions.

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On my first day at my new workplace, I met a guy, and we talk daily, primarily through chat and calls, as we're both busy during office hours.

He confessed that he likes me, and although I should probably stop talking to him, I continue because he's a good friend.

I'm uncertain about my feelings for him, but I look forward to our interactions. Despite being an extrovert while I'm an introvert, I'm comfortable around him. I feel good with him.

He's caring and considerate, refraining from talking openly in front of others to avoid unnecessary gossip that might make me feel uncomfortable.

When he mentioned his plans to leave the place and settle elsewhere, it made me feel sad.

Also I feel like I am a cheater who is talking to other guy even after having a boyfriend.

In between my bf asked to meet me. As he knows now I don't stay with my family so we can freely meet.

However I denied meeting him by saying..."you don't even talk then why you want to meet?"

I know he felt bad but that's how he made me feel.

I'm just going with flow ...am I doing something wrong?

Am I a bad person?