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I use to have it all, i was happy and i was very positive even in bad situations. After an abusive relationship i fail to see the good things, I've never been depressed before and my family never talked about when it happened to my mother but I'm pretty sure, even though I can at certain times control my emotions, that i am dealing with some level of depression and anxiety. I don't know what to do, my bf is going through his own struggles with depression and is even suicidal and i feel hopeless. I thought for a minute i had found my person and knowing that he has thoughts of ending his life even if he loves his nieces and nephew so much and his sisters and grandma, he would still do it. I obviously want him to live but i can't control him, i try to tell him how important he is and i try to show it but we're so different that it sometimes makes thisngs worse. I just want him to be happy. He is an amazing person, so smart, so kind, so ambitious and has great values but he's tired and no matter how hard i try i always mess up and I'm scared to mess up so bad that he snaps with everything happening at the same time. I feels so stressed and depressed and anxious but i can't say it. I have to be strong for him bc even when he feels like shit he's strong for me and i want to be his person like he is to me. So hopefully this will help me feel, at least, a bit lighter.
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Being with your boyfriend the way he is is no good for you so no wonder you are the way you are. Tell him to see a doctor to get the help he needs and even if the doctor tells him to see a psychiatrist or a therapist he should do that. Have a break from him while you see a doctor as well and get help for yourself because the two of you being together like this will only cause you to bring each other down. When you are both over this then get back together and see how things go. I wish you both the best.
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