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I have a crush on someone I know I couldn't have. I wanted to tell that person about feelings, but I'm not sure how, when, and where. I know I'm overthinking it, but I can't help it. I'm afraid that our friendship would not be the same (in a negative way) once I tell that person about what I feel, and I can tell that that person doesn't see me as someone to be in a relationship with. We're friends, but not close friends, still I don't want to risk it. I'm just annoyed at myself cause I can't stop thinking about that person. It's been 3 months now since I have this feeling. I tried moving on, but seeing that persons' face or pic on fb just makes it seem more impossible to move on, especially that we're classmates. I constantly argue with myself that why would I care for that person or treat that person in a special way when that person hasn't done anything special or nice to me in return. It makes me think that maybe what I'm feeling is not love, but infatuation, yet my stupid heart still won't listen.
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This crush should disappear as fast as it appeared.
ReplyI really do hope so. They say that a crush only lasts up to 4 months, well it's going to be the 4th month in a few weeks haha Wish I could just remove this feeling and flush it down the drain lol
ReplyI've had a crush on someone for 3 years now and I can't tell him either and we're close friends and idk I just feel like this is killing me.
ReplyWow that's a very long time. They say that once a crush lasts for longer than 2 years it is classified as limerence. Limerence is the state of being obsessively infatuated with someone, usually accompanied by delusions of or a desire for an intense romantic relationship with that person. It can also lead to obsession, now that's one of the things that I'm scared of.
ReplyKeep yourself at a certain distance, and maybe talk to your friends in the matter, asking for advices. I feel you on how hard it is to have a crush on a friend of yours.
And if you have to, try giving yourself a chance to talk to him privately
-MRTS
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