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i have no actual friends. no one wants to go out with me or text me lol. i’m always the one initiating going out and even then no one is 100% keen on going out. no one replies when i text especially in group chats and when i talk it always feels like i’m never heard and no one replies or responds. i always see the rest of them going out together and i always tell myself it’s okay they are allowed to go out together! there are so many things they do that tell me i’m not a core part of their life and they could live without this friendship. i can acknowledge the fact that i’m not the best or nicest person, but i don’t think i’ve been an absolute ass to them too. now that exams are over, i see all of them going out and having fun and thats rubbing salt in my wound.i’ve reflected and tried to be a better person and i’ve started keeping my mouth shut when i’m around them and engaging less in the group chat and i guess that made me feel a little better. but just now, i saw the person i considered my best friend go out with someone that used to press her buttons ( and she did point out some things about this person that pissed her off before) and it just broke something in me. maybe i’m thinking too much but i am feeling something, and it’s not positive.
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its ok bestie i have no friends either but im also not interested in having any even though it gets very lonely and i feel alone a lot. i dont mind not speaking to anyone for a long time. but if you are interested in making friends i recommend finding a hobby that interests you and finding others who partake in the hobby and joining local groups so you guys can do the activity together. also volunteering at a consistent place also helps find people that share your same interests. good luck.
Replyhappened to me too, honestly screw ppl like that, but still there's not much to do when you haven't even got one friend ACTUALLY by ur side
ReplyJoin a sports team.
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