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Does anyone actually feel like a girl? I don't feel super attached to it as an identity. I know I'm a girl, because that's what people tell me I am, but I dont FEEL like a girl. I feel like nothing. I see my chest and see two foreign objects, things that don't feel right for my body. I sit in the bath and try not to look at myself. I don't know if it's body dysmorphia or something else, but I don't feel like a girl. The label makes me cringe for some reason. Maybe it's the discrimination I face every day that's making me feel this way. Maybe if I wasn't a girl people would see me differently. If I was born a man, maybe I'd feel differently. The idea of having sex in this body feels gross to me, and I don't even like to think about it. I don't like to look at my body, and I don't know if I ever will. I'm not trans or anything, I wouldn't transition just because of how complicated it is, but if I could snap my fingers and get rid of certain parts of me/replace them, I would. I'd absolutely love to be able to change my gender at the snap of a finger.
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I’m a woman I’m 20 I’ve definitely felt uncomfortable in my body before and gone thru a time like that it happens to everyone. Just think that you have a body and a mind with a voice that’s pretty great. You’ll grow into yourself just leave it be and accept it. I’m proud to be a girl men make women feel small I think having tits is the best thing in the world
ReplyDon't allow men to make you feel what you don't want to feel. YOU decide how YOU feel. No-one else.
Replyhey, I dont mean to question things you've said but you don't have to socially or medically transition to be a trans person. There are closeted trans people everywhere, and if you don't feel like a girl you don't necessarily have to be a man. There are spectrums of in between and spectrums that are entirely separate from male and female. You don't have to know what you are, but if you know what you aren't that's a good place to start. I feel the same about hating being a woman, but my hatred is less self-dislike and more dislike at the societal pressures and requirements and downsides that come with being a woman. I wish you luck!
Replythank you it means a lot that you took the time to comment :)
ReplyYa know~!
As a former woman (I'm nonbinary and is currently questioning top surgery), I know how does it feels like to feel uncomfortable in your own body especially even in showers I would look at myself in disgust and just feel like shit :/.
I have been feeling gender dysphoria for my whole life, so I can tell you that you're probably feel dysphoric as a woman (or maybe gender fluid or nonbinary? Who knows! /lh /nm).
I wish I could change my gender body already -n-.
But my suggestion is to try to wear something baggy and oversized so you don't see yourself in disgust often :)
-MRTS
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