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So. I guess we’ve all been there at some point, but here’s the deal: I’ve been really good friends with this dude for more than a year now. We hit it off almost immediately, and I’ve never even seen or acknowledged the possibility of seeing him as anything other than a really good friend. It’s always been platonic. But over the last month, I’ve started to realize that I do have feelings. I didn’t realize until we were on FaceTime one day, and he told me about this girl he really likes, and asked for my input on whether or not she likes him too. See, this scenario has played out more times before, but none of the other times had bothered me. But this time, dear god, it bothered me so much. I was so jealous. But I ignored it, and I was truthful about the whole situation because I did think the girl liked him. It hurt like a bitch, but I said what was the truth. But after saying it it hurt like a ton of bricks, so I had to make an excuse and leave the call. It’s been a month since then, and we’re still really really good friends, but this thing is bothering me more than it should. I’m becoming increasingly aware of the fact that I definitely do have feelings for him now. Don’t know when I developed them, but they’re definitely there. And the worst thing is, so many people have asked me the question of whether or not him and I have something going on. The answer is always no. It’s never been discussed or been on the table. I don’t even think he sees me that way. Plus, he’s kinda obsessed with the other girl. Don’t blame him, the girl is great. But now I’m at the eternal question of — what the hell do I do? Bc clearly, this is boiling up. I’m afraid of our friendship taking a hit, because I genuinely value that.
Any advice anyone wants to put out is appreciated— ms girl is suffering fr ðŸ˜
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ReplyDon’t get what you mean tbh?
ReplyTell him how you feel and see what happens otherwise you will never know.
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