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My husband was talking about leaving me during few days and when I started talking about the divorce he suddenly changed his behavior and said he would never leave me. It happened many times. I feel confused. I feel I am becoming crazy. I feel I don't know what I want anymore. Why is he doing that to me? What should I do?
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Tell him that you both should see a marriage counselor to get help to sort this out so that things are better for you both.
ReplyDoes it matter why he is doing it? He might not even know why he is doing that to you.
Do what you want to do. This is your marriage, but it is also your life.
ReplyHe loves you. Maybe, he is in some emotional turmoil. Maybe, he is going through a lot of things he can't share. Maybe, he is in bad company who needs support. I can understand what you are going through everyday. Don't loose faith in God and yourself. Things will be okay in the coming days. I wish you all the best.
ReplyNarcissistic behavior...tell him to grow up and stop wasting both your time. Get the divorce and keep your sanity
ReplyIf his childish behavior is wearing you down and causing hurt, and you feel he won't change, it might be best to divorce and move on with your life. He seems to believe you'll tolerate his immaturity, but you deserve respect. Let him learn the consequences of his actions and words.
ReplyIf you have children together, your marriage is their family, so definitely try to save your marriage by seeking marriage counseling.
If no children together, it sounds you 2 could use a course together on communication. Communication is key in any committed relationship. Best of luck.
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Mark 12:28-31
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Love God first and foremost.
Love your fellow-being as you love yourself.
From following or not following these, all good or evil cascades, respectively.
Love...that powerful, invisible, intangible force that cannot be denied; even atheists live and die by it.
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