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OH MY GOSH I HATE MENNNN. why do they use you. i don’t understand. why am i only worth a nut?! i dont get it. i wish someone cared. i wish men werent so scary and stupid. i just want to have a real convo. i dont want it to get creepy. why cant we just talk about music and that can be enough? Why is every part of me sexualized? i just don’t get it. must it always be about sex? i don’t understand. ahhhhh. i wish people cared about platonic relationships more. they matter they’re the only people who actually value you. yet people throw away their friends like nothing. everything’s messed up. i wish i had worth in myself. i just can’t tell myself i’m pretty and i hate that that’s what my worths in and if i don’t show everything i’m a tease. but i do i’m a slut. i hate. men are scary. i want to trust but they have never given me a reason too
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ReplyIgnore men, then life isn't sad.
Replyyeah...
ReplyYep. That's why I like other women.
ReplyYes, I'd rather be single until I'm old and take care of my parents for the rest of my life 😑😊
ReplyPreach! Men don't men these days and it's so frustrating. It's only about sex and it's exhausting. I'll stay single for the rest of my life before I settle for anything less than a gentleman who isn't afraid to share their feelings and treat me like an actual person.
Replyagree with you sis
ReplyWhen it comes to girls men think with their dicks.
ReplyAnd when you're over forty, you'll be told you have nothing to offer.
Replyyeah, it hurts but it's true
ReplyYeah men are pretty wicked. They're all so lustful and they'll just forget about you after you bang them. Idk why any women are into men. To me most of them are scum of the earth.
ReplyIm a man myself and I support feminism which means we want to treat both genders fairly and I get what you are going through it's hate anger betrayed disgust and just outright not being able to trust I get it you feel anger against the people you done you wrong and I'm not saying that you shouldn't hate the people that have done you wrong but hating a whole group like a whole gender group just because some men in there did you wrong doesn't give you the right to immediately hate others in the group just because they did and honestly Im with you on some of you point some men these days are filled with lust but women to me personally I try to think on both sides before I come out and say my opinion but you gotta understand it's unreasonable and unrealistic and unfair for other men that are nice and actually caring for a relationship and you hating on them I mean if they are a creep and the just want you for your body and sex yea its reasonable to push them off but the innocent one but let me go in order and talk about everything you said
1. You can't just hate a whole gender group because of what some of people in there did to you you can hate the people but not the group
2.you think you self worth matter why are you even looking at it that way and people do care I don't know how you really act so I can't really give you something specific and your self worth shouldn't depend on other people but it still doesn't mean you shouldn't act all "I own the world
3.so scary and stupid?!?!! First if you think they are scary that's how you feel them and it's ok but if you treat them badly and talk behind their back just because their looks and not how they act just no no and stupid?? Woman you gotta understand how peoples mind work woman are able to think quick and well but men their minds are different search it up and stop thinking with how you feel about them most men are scientists engineer they are more willing to do that I mean woman can to but the percentage and how many people to do that is a lot more
4. It's how you represent yourself how you act around them is how they act towards you if you act all showing off your body and acting like you want to do it yea ofc they are going to try their chances but if you aren't they are just weird people I can agree with you on that and sexualizing idk about that either but woman do it too don't think they don't
5. Platonic relationship just if they value you a lot by you being there in their life it means they like you but sometimes it's wholesome love I can say this with truth most boys when they get in a friendship with a woman including including myself usually means they like them and want to build a stable relationship before asking because they are afraid of being rejected and if they are they will just brush it off as a joke and probably cry later but it's alright they are nice and mean well unless they are manipulated and the friends that just throw you away and just uses you I get it they are bad people but you gotta understand their personality ive gotten to learn a lot about how both gender thinks and trust me im pretty understanding and you can talk to me normally without thinking you are worthless around me im that type of man and there is more don't think there is no nice men people make mistakes and if they do they usually try to apologize and try to make the situation better without making you feel worse trust me even though I know you don't trust the gender you can believe me on this
6. You can call yourself pretty but most men are honest about what they think and if they think you are ugly or not pretty they are just mean but honest about what they think about you but trust me beauty comes in the personality also for the friend thing if you want to know more tell me and I'll answer it the best I can and don't listen to others people when they say "you need to show you body more" don't listen to them just show what ever you want but don't just be in the bikini walking down the streets showing off you body sexually it's bad and that's what people call a slut but if you aren't doing that don't listen to them they are just having bad pov about you
7.and finally trust trust maybe hard to give or earn and I get it you have the right to but I got nothing much for this I am naive I trust too much but that's how I make the best friend even though I've gotten hurt so many times it my seem like I can't trust anymore but I actually use that as a learning opportunity to understand people and how they act around me each time I get hear I understand what I did wrong and I fix myself on what I did wrong even though they broke me in half they were mostly woman and see how I am I still trust and try notto say anything bad about woman they have broken me shattered my it's like how am I still this trusting idk you don't have to do what I do but if someone hurts you try to move on the best you can and learn from that but it isn't good to just shut yourself off from the world just because someone did something to you it maybe a cope mechanism I understand that but you can just stay like that forever keep on going and try your best to not make the same mistakes you did
I understand you situation if you want you can contact me but it makes me sound like a creep so try to take in what I said and I hope you reply or just understand yourself what you read if you've read this far
ReplyYou are right. No matter how upset we are, it is very unwise if we hate everyone in one group just for what a few people in that group did.
Replyi’m the original writer and i love your input. i never thought of certain things that way. in my situation, i feel like i get sexualized in every aspect of my life like what i eat, what i wear, what i have done, what haven’t done, and so on. i get sexualized because i haven’t done anything sexual? i just don’t get it. i don’t hate men, i really want to like them and their admiral qualities but i’ve never met a man that didn’t make me feel uncomfortable. they always want someone or only see u fit for sex or reproduction. why must they always view us this way? my own father sees me this way. it’s disgusting. i wish i could see it differently and living with this hate is heavy but i don’t see it any other way.
ReplyI'm the writer of that long text😭 and I understand but I haven't gone through what you have but I do understand how you are thinking and how you came up with it you are totally in the right for thinking like that as a man myself I am truly sorry for what people look say or do to you I can't control them no one can I wish I could help but all I can do is try not to think about it that way and just ignore what they say about you being only useful for your body don't listen to them live you life love people for who they are I know it's hard not to think of it but try if you can try to think less of how others view you try to have nice long happy life maybe you'll find a man nice loving and just innocent wholesome and isn't overly sexual but all in summery try to ignore them I know it's hard you'll be uncomfortable but try to teach them a lesson on being respectful and I totally agree your father shouldn't look at you that way but I'm probably missing a lot of things I want to say with better advice but I'm tired so I hope you have a good day ma'am and try to survive the world of just life experience stuff without setback keep looking forward let time flow just yea.. i hope you had a good day
ReplyBut what else can we do? Without men and that sexual urge, we humans will become extinct (well, even though I won't justify all the evil acts they did to us, I won't, of course never). We are annoyed, but on the other hand we need them (men in general) without realizing it.... 😌😅
Not only in love and sex. But in all matters of life, women and men basically need each other.
If you think that you don't need a man when it comes to love and sex, that's okay because you know your own needs better. But believe it or not, in other things such as work, we cannot stand alone. We still need each other. ❤️
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