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So about 3 days ago, I was confronted by my ex-boyfriend who came back after 31 days. He confronted me on January 30. This was a long distance relationship. He came back and said, "Hello." I was kinda curious as to why he texted me back, I was finally happy that he left and I was free of all the toxicity that he had put on me. All the hate words that were left in my head that I couldn't comprehend. Sometimes there were times where I wish I could've left him and things were fine as they were. I did try to leave him, but when someone like myself was in a situation where their partner wouldn't let them have their own opinion. Back to where I was about him texting me, I kept getting friend requests from him and this other person who I didn't know. I didn't know who that person was and I kept getting concerned. It was a girl who I didn't know. So I confronted my ex and he kept asking how I was. At the tone of how he was texting, he sounded more calm. More quiet, more relaxed. I was kinda curious about why. Mostly concerned. About the girl who kept trying to follow me, I kept declining because I didn't know who she was and I don't accept followers whom I don't know. Somehow she found my Snapchat. She tried adding me and I accepted. (Big mistake). She said a friendly "heyy." I asked her who she was and she came to me with a huge paragraph of harassing me and saying so many rude things that felt really hurtful to the point where I started shaking out of fear and anger. She called me an "ugly ass Asian bitch with no self confidence." She kept going and going. She even took screenshots of all the chats her and I were communicating. I confronted my ex about all of this and he said he had no idea who she was. But then later told me that it was a girl he had met online about 3 years ago. I got so mad at him for not telling me earlier that he met her. After her threatening/harassing me for about 30 minutes, I couldn't stand it anymore. I started taking screenshots in case anything ever happened. She kept saying "Oh, now using my trick." After I took the screenshots, I blocked her. I couldn't handle it anymore. After I blocked her, I couldn't handle my ex anymore, told him that this was his final warning. If he ever confronted me about anything, I am just gonna block him & have it to be the end. But he told me that that girl was gonna send a person to my house. I got very scared but at the same time, I was preparing myself to protect myself. She tried calling me when in reality, I didn't give her my number. I blocked her number so she wouldn't contact me anymore. I even blocked my ex-boyfriend so that he doesn't message me anymore. Note to myself & for others: Don't get into a relationship with friends or family who don't approve your own opinion, but also don't let you live your life the way you want it. Don't be in a toxic relationship. I learn the hard way and I have to suffer with it.
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the psycho girl’s hatred is her own punishment. congrats on escaping that hell
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Replywhat a bitch. she is just jealous. I'm sick of people like that thinking they just get whatever and matter of fact she prob fugly asf and just jealous that you prob look better than her. To those kinda girls like that if they started talking shit bout me all I got to say is "Sucks to suck dickhead"
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