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she's left me for 3 weeks and I dont know how to genuinely cope every moment makes me wanna just break down and start crying my eyes out. My ma's dad passed away a day ago and our family fell into chaos and its just been such a unusual feeling for me. Never has someone close to me died, and I've cried this much. Well main reason for me being so upset is because my ma won't be here for 3 weeks. I have to go abroad for a week so I guess thats 2 weeks but STILL. I've got aunts asking me that yk they'll be there for me, to text them if I need anything, or if I wanna go out blah blah blah, but its like I GET ur tryna be nice, and be quite understanding but ur just NOT my ma. No one can ever fill in her spot, even if its temporarily. Then I've got people asking me if I'm okay like DO U THINK SOMEONES GONNA BE OKAY AFTER A LOVED ONE PASSED AWAY AND THEY HAVE TO LIVE WITHOUT THEIR MA FOR A MONTH? do people evn think before speaking? Then you've got others saying they're sorry my grandad passed away, like mkay I aware ur apologetic and feel sympathy but why the sorry? Just tell me how to cope and check up on me. I hate how people who betrayed me (ex bsf) came over to my home due to my grandad dying, and then they have the nerve to ask me if I'm okay. LIKE GIRL DO NOTTT TRY N GET CLOSE WITH ME JUST BECAUSE SOMEONE PASSED AWAY. IS THAT WHAT IT REALLY TAKES FOR U TO TALK TO ME AGAIN? SOMEONES LIFE? ok. Please someone just tell me how to cope, I wanna see my ma again but she's already left for her flight while I was at school, and I've messaged her but bc she's on the plane the messages won't go thru til she's landed which is at midnight. I wanna go places w her again, and I was thinking if I should ask my aunt (as in my ma's friends or ex bsfs mum who I'm on an okay relation w but still) to take me but I think that'd just be awkward and I wouldn't be able to do anything because of how uncomfortable I'd feel. As soon as I came home from school, I just bawled my eyes out and I still currently am. Please, any advice?
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You seem to be very dependent on your mother for some reason. It is only a month that you will not see her so ask yourself what is the problem? If you were a small child this would be understandable but you are old enough to have a girl friend so what is the matter with you? You should think yourself lucky to have an aunt who is willing to take you places so put your feeling of being uncomfortable aside and ask her to take you if she wants to and enjoy the month that you have to yourself. You really should try not to be so dependable on your mother. If you have friends go see them and have fun.
ReplyI'm a female and I'm not comfortable w the male in my family, ofc I'm gonna be dependant on my mother
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