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I wanna go to my boyfriends house but I have strict parents they call me whenever I go out and they wanna know who i am with they tell me send pictures with ur friends and call me between to know where my location is thats why ai cant go out with my bf without my friends
I seriously dont know what to do wish there was a way to ditch them and hang out with my bf even if I say im going to my friends house they’re like okay send pictures or we’ll drop u off although my bf is considerate and wont care about these things but i just don’t wanna tell him anything and I really wanna go but I just cant find a way if they notice I hang out with boys they’ll kill me
There is seriously no way right?
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Your parents certainly have a tight rein on you. I don't know of any way except to send photos of yourself with your friend at her house and then to take off with your bf for a while.
ReplyEvery boyfriend I've ever known including me wants to "play house" with the girlfriend. This is specifically why mom and dad don't want boys near their daughter. Basically, one of the main reasons is they don't want you to end up pregnant. Another reason is they don't want the boy to try to get you drunk or high so he can get what he wants, and you also end up pregnant, but scenario is probably worse. Listen to your parents - they were your age once and they exactly what boyfriends and girlfriends do when parents aren't around. Before you know it, you'll be out of high school and off to college, and then you'll be old enough to know how to handle more things, not unplanned pregnancies, but more things. Don't deceive your parents. Best of luck.
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ReplyYour parents only want what is best for you. If you've ever heard of the saying "You'll understand when you're older." is Effin true. I used to sneak out with bf and would even disregard my mother's calls. But tbh, the enjoyment of sneaking out was just for a little time. I was more stressed at my parents finding out my deeds than actually enjoying my time with my bf. FF I am married now with two girls and I have just now understood how protective my parents were of me. If I could turn back time I would just trust them and obey them in a heartbeat. It is so easy to do the deed and get pregnant but the harsh reality of raising kids makes me thankful that I decided to obey my parents rather than continue sneaking out without their approval. It will give you so much peace once you receive your parents' approval to hang out with your boyfriend. Not only does this mean that they trust you but also they trust the guy you currently have a relationship with.
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