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A while back, a friend asked me if I would rather love and lose or never to have loved at all and ofcourse as the Convener and Chair lady of the hard girls association I said never to have loved because we don't loose things around here... In retrospect I think I answered too quickly and the reason for that was I had gotten numb having been single for a whole decade.
For those of you wondering, why? Omo! I wish I could tell you I was building wealth and Influence and I have now attained Agba baller status but alas I am still pleading with God to give me the hit song so wey go make me blow.
Ofcourse, there were doses of talking stages within that decade of singleness but nothing ever came out from them. Few of my friends are of the opinion I experienced trauma which is why I haven't dated for this long and to that I say God forbid! for the man that posses such power over me has not been born yet and neither has his mother.
My true Gees believe that it is because of my deeply introverted and antisocial lifestyle complicated by my strong face and glasses, I think they are more closer to the truth than the former.
What about me? what do I think? I think it is one of two things, I haven't met anyone I feel so strongly about and I don't know how to do things halfheartedly, also what if not everyone gets to experience love, and by that I mean the kind of love that makes you want to marry for love itself and not for convenience.
Recently, I decided to throw caution to the wind and do the most unconventional thing I have ever done, so I got into a situationship and I tried to do the halfhearted thing but it came crumbling down and it further strengthen my resolve to have all of a person or nothing at all.
I am confident that I am not such a terrible person and love will happen to me too but if it doesn't atleast I have all of myself to nurture and love.
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Many of us forget the unconditional love we have with our parents, siblings, BFF, etc. Yes romantic love has the layer of mutual commitment between 2 people, and intimacy, which are but 2 of the the things that makes it special, but in the meantime unconditional love must not be dismissed. Best of luck.
Courtesy notice: the following includes a reference to a book that contains writings over 2000 years old which are mostly parables about human nature, both vile human nature as well as moral human nature, parables that are meant to teach us to learn and grow, including the teachings of Christ Jesus. No religion required, and better yet: no public displays of devotion required, although the former and latter are admirable if practiced freely out of one's own free will and without the threat of being beheaded. Some bullies will label this "trolling", so "change the channel" now if of no interest to you.
1 Thessalonians 5:11
Therefore encourage one another and build each other up, just as in fact you are doing.
Mark 12:28-31
And Christ Jesus said the 2 greatest commandments are:
Love God first and foremost.
Love your fellow-being as you love yourself.
From following or not following these, all good or evil cascades, respectively.
Love...that powerful, invisible, intangible force that cannot be denied; even atheists live and die by it.
Mary, Mother of Christ, intercede for us with your prayers, now, and always.
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