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I am in the worst situation rn.
I have a lottttt of online friends. And the majority of my online friends are male. Only like 2 girls and 20 guys :/// We're all close and all the guys are like my brothers, some of them I'd say half are Muslims. They talk about "halal dating" see I don't understand much, like what can't I do??? And what can I do? My really really religious Muslim friend is in a relationship with this girl and at first I never knew we could date until 2 years ago. And then when I knew this, I dated/dating.. a Muslim guy. The thing is he's not very religious as my family is. He's somewhat losing faith. But, I try to help him in all the ways I can, and tell him to recite the Quran again. Also the bad thing is, my parents have no clue. That I'm dating or with online friends because they definitely wouldn't allow it. My Muslim friend that is a girl she has not dated, but is in the talking stage with a guy, I forgot if she told me he was a Muslim. The thing is, the online friends tell me that dating is allowed unless it's halal but I'm so confused on whether I'm doing the right thing or not. My boyfriend doesn't touch me, we don't send pics. Though I will send him a picture of my outfit, we don't kiss, nothing like that. But we do talk in a way that is very considerable or you can say "lovey dovey". So I need help ://
ps,
To the people who are like "oh Muslim forces you to do stuff....it's not a good religion...so stupid". I'm not changing my religion. In fact, I will not listen to you when you talk trash about religion. I'm staying with Islam because I love my religion, I'm ASKING for GUIDANCE for my RELIGION. If you can't understand that fuck off 😇
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Your life wouldn't be so complicated if you didn't follow all these made up religious rules.
ReplyI am not a Muslim, so I don't know whether you are doing the right thing or not. You. are young so enjoy yourself as much as you can without getting into any trouble. Best wishes.
Replyam muslim and dating was never "hala" their lying to you and why are you dating someone in the first place? and please don't send your pictures to guys no matter who they are or how long you've known them for.. there's a reason why dating isn't hala ..what i would do in your place i would break up with that guy you call "boyfriend" and block him plus he might be texting like 10 girls rn and he just likes playing with you so you send stuff or to just go out with him just wants you to lie to ur mom and dad.. and please block every guy you have and if your girl friends are like no dating is okay or whatever just block her too she's trying to ruin you you don't need men to make yourself happy just please take care and be safe and please don't trust strangers.. you don't know him you don't even know if he even is who he says he is
ReplyBy design, nothing good will result from you hiding things from your parents. Also by design, if you play with fire, sooner or later you will get burned. And lastly, practicing the rituals of religion xyz does not prove faith. Faith is a journey, and will have many obstacles, falling, getting back up. Best of luck to you and the young man in your life.
Courtesy notice: the following includes a reference to a book that contains writings over 2000 years old which are mostly parables about human nature, both vile human nature as well as moral human nature, parables that are meant to teach us to learn and grow, including the teachings of Christ Jesus. No religion required, and better yet: no public displays of devotion required, although the former and latter are admirable if practiced freely out of one's own free will and without the threat of being beheaded. Some bullies will label this "trolling", so "change the channel" now if of no interest to you.
1 Thessalonians 5:11
Therefore encourage one another and build each other up, just as in fact you are doing.
Mark 12:28-31
And Christ Jesus said the 2 greatest commandments are:
Love God first and foremost.
Love your fellow-being as you love yourself.
From following or not following these, all good or evil cascades, respectively.
Love...that powerful, invisible, intangible force that cannot be denied; even atheists live and die by it.
Mary, Mother of Christ, intercede for us with your prayers, now, and always.
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