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A week ago, my boyfriend and I argued about something so stupid and it became something so big. He told me that I hurt him and the next hour he forgave me when I apologized. And when I hurt someone I distance myself even if they forgive me and all, I genuinely feel so bad that I try staying away. Him and I usually never fight and if we do, it's not even that bad and if I do hurt him I don't try to stay distant for so long. But this time is different, and I've noticed myself. I barely text or call him. Usually on an average day we'll be talking for 7-8 hours. But now it's 4-5 hours but some days it's only an hour. I haven't called him since the argument but not because we're still on about the fight just because I rarely have time. I started to preoccupy myself with studies, home stuff, colleges, etc. And most of the day, I'm studying, or cleaning the house. I found enjoyment to distract myself from him because I due tend to be a very clingy person which he does like but it made me feel like I didn't have other priorities or that I depended him on things which really is not the case. It's 6:48 pm in Rome and I still haven't messaged my boyfriend from last night. And it's not because I'm ignoring him, I haven't touched my phone since last night. I've been busy maybe in another hour I'll go answer but I find this so strange because I'm never able to just not text him because I become very clingy.. very..clingy.. so I don't know if this is good but I'm really glad that I have set some priorities for myself and am learning to become independent as well. Though I very much love my boyfriend, I've been with him for 2 years now and we're going strong, maybe this is just a weird phase from me, but hopefully I get the time to answer him, my phone is in a drawer, I keep it there to not let myself use it too much. So in that case hopefully I get some advice from someone. And thank you :))
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It sounds like your relationship is maturing beautifully for you. While it is an amazing change to make, that being, setting your priorities and becoming independent from your boyfriend, keep in mind that it could be a change that needs to be addressed. It seems like your relationship needs have changed from your previous time together - which could be a great thing for both of you. Though, it seems like this is something you guys should talk about.
Wishing you a happy, healthy relationship.
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