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So im 20 and been in multiple relationships but never had sex.
Now i’ve been with my boyfriend for about two months it’s not about him. I just feel like I want it myself and I think about it like i wanna do it but im actually scared to lose my v card because in my country parents do ask for v card when u wanna get married and its not like i care too much about this fact im just scared all of my friends had sex before and they’re cool with it idk why im not its like i just need some reassurance to know im not doing a bad thing or its normal or something im just scared.
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I don’t know what country you are from, but let’s face it, most people are having sex at that age. The question is, what do you want? If you do have sex, will you be okay with it or would you rather have waited until you’re married. Before you do have sex:
- Make sure its what you really want. You come first and remember that.
- Make sure it is with someone you can trust and that will treat you right and care about you. I just lost my v card recently and I am younger than you, and I didn’t choose the right guy.
- Make sure you use precautions, such as protection.
Its okay to be nervous, I think we all are our first time. I am not saying to go do it, or don’t do it. I am saying do what it is that you feel is right for you. Anything else, just ask okay.
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ReplyI mean it's not illegal to have consentual sex. And it's completely normal to want it (many consider it a human need). It's totally up to you if you want to have sex. Unfortunate that you live in a country that prefers their sons to marry virgins. Weigh your options. How important is it to you that you are a virgin when you marry in the future (if you want to marry)? What are your feelings about that expectation of women? And is it worth it to wait? There's no right or wrong answer, there's only what's right to you. If you decide to have sex, make sure to use protection. :)
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