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So basically i'm in love with a girl (since last year) and we are really close Friends, we even had a relationship during the summer vacations (didn't quite workout because of some dumb shit), but we were still close Friends. Then in september we were mad at eachother because of one of our "friend" that was manipulating her (that period made me really sad). but then mid october we started retalking and we pardonned eachother. From october to january, i had a girlfriend but since i was still in love with the other girl (We will call her Eva now) i didn't like my relationship and decided to end it in january. You might ask me "what is the lesbian part ?" well when i was with my girlfriend, Eva told me that she decided to become a lesbian. And it really impacted me because i'm still deeply in love with her, and now i don't want to move on and love someone else because i feel like if i try to love someone other than Eva i'll be sad and don't actually like the relationship that i might be in. Sometimes i wish i could go back in Time and fix my mistakes so i can still be with the girl that i love the most. And lastly i want to ask if i should tell her about that ?
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ReplyThe biggest thing to do is just respect her. She didn't just decide to become a lesbian, it took long and hard consideration to come to the conclusion that she wasn't attracted to men. There's nothing wrong with loving her, you can tell her. But you still need to understand that she won't change her mind and that you can't do much about it. Maybe just take a break from being in ANY relationships for a month or two to take time to think. As a lesbian woman, I didn't like it when a man got mad at me when I told him I would never like him that way. It made me extremely uncomfortable when they pushed me. I'm not saying you would do that because from these paragraphs you truly love her, but all I'm saying is to be sensitive to the fact that this situation won't go your way.
I hope everything goes well! Happy Pride Month Y'all!
ReplyJust go and tell her.
Remember those people who respect and love you sincerely will always be there with you no matter what.
You might be one of those people who are worried that confessing everything might spoil your relationship.
But what about that regret that you will have in your whole life for not having courage to say that you love her.
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LOVE IS LOVE. It doesn't have any gender or sex. If you love her as you say, you will love her beyond all the flaws and barriers.
So, All the best. Live a free life with no regrets and Lots of love.
AdioΕ
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