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Is love real or just a cruel game in which the goal is to avoid getting your heart crushed?
8 months ago · 5 · Lonely, +2
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I tried to tell her how I feel,
but then she brought me back to reality.
I was honest and explained that we had been spending a lot of time together and during that time I was developing feelings for her and that I wanted something more. She then said she really cared about me and that she thought I was a great person. She said she didn't have feelings for me that way but loved spending time with me because I make her smile and laugh almost nonstop. She even told me I am her favorite person but she will not go on a date with me and give me a chance. She had been single for a while so I thought maybe she might say yes but she said no. I felt crushed because she is the only one who has ever made my heart skip a beat when I see her face and my stomach flips when I my phone rings and I see her picture and name on my screen. Fast forward a few weeks after that night and she is with a guy for only a few days and he has already slapped her and abused her but she won't break up with him. I just don't understand why women choose getting abused over being truly loved.
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because you gave all the earth & moon to her so she took you for granted . Love someone you love you equally.
ReplyPerhaps a relationship with not getting slapped and abused is too boring for them.
ReplyContinued: or they have a victim mentality.
ReplyShe's obviously not very smart. You dodged a bullet.
ReplyMany of us do not understand why some women choose abusive relationships over being treated with love and respect. Perhaps it's something they saw in their home as they developed from toddler to childhood to young adult, and it's what they "know". Perhaps stay her confidant, be there for her if she needs to talk, but keep open mind to romance with someone else. Maybe she'll get "jealous" when she sees you giving your affection to someone else, and she might end her bad relationship and come to you. It's never easy, but there's always hope one way or another. Best of luck.
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1 Thessalonians 5:11
Therefore encourage one another and build each other up, just as in fact you are doing.
Mark 12:28-31
And Christ Jesus said the 2 greatest commandments are:
Love God first and foremost.
Love your fellow-being as you love yourself.
From following or not following these, all good or evil cascades, respectively.
Love...that powerful, invisible, intangible force that cannot be denied; even atheists live and die by it.
Mary, Mother of Christ, intercede for us with your prayers, now, and always.
And after our worst deeds - never forget God forgives us when we repent through Christ Jesus.
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